There are moments in life that hit us like a ton of bricks – those sudden, undeniable realizations that we’ve landed ourselves in a tricky spot. It’s that feeling of looking at a situation and wanting to throw your hands up, exclaiming, “Oh, LORD! My goose is cooked!” I know I’ve been there. That heavy, disheartening feeling of hitting rock bottom, realizing your choices have led you straight into a mess, and thinking, “There’s no way out of this one!” As Christian women striving to walk with God, it can sometimes feel even more isolating.
We’ve all been there, haven’t we? Those moments when despite our best intentions, or perhaps a moment of impatience or leaning on our own understanding, our actions result in a less-than-desired, even dire, outcome. It’s when you’re staring at the consequences of a decision, big or small, and the full weight of it settles in. Maybe it’s a strained relationship from words spoken too quickly, a financial bind from a hasty purchase, or a missed opportunity because we hesitated for too long. That gut-wrenching feeling of, “How did I get here, and what on earth do I do now?”
But here’s the beautiful truth we need to hold onto: our God is a God of redemption, even when our goose feels utterly cooked. He meets us in our messes, not to condemn us, but to guide us through. This blog is all about those moments – what happens when we face the music, how we navigate the aftermath, and most importantly, how we can lean on God to avoid those “cooked goose” scenarios in the future.
This journey, our walk with Christ, isn’t about perfection, but about progress. It’s about learning to step out in faith, to follow God’s leading with humble hope, and to act in love, even when the path isn’t perfectly clear or our past choices loom large. It’s about trusting that even when we stumble, God’s grace is sufficient, and His plans for us are always good.
Finding Our Way Out (And Avoiding Future “Cooked Geese”)
So, how do we shift from panic to peace, from despair to divine direction? It starts with recognizing that God’s Word is not just a book of rules, but a lamp for our feet and a light for our path (Psalm 119:105). It is designed to lead us, not into temptation or regret, but into all good works that God has prepared for us (Ephesians 2:10).
Even some well-known women in the Bible, despite their incredible faith, experienced moments where their very human reactions showed a temporary lack of circumspection. Think of Sarah, for instance.
When the Lord visited Abraham and promised that Sarah, well advanced in years, would bear a son, Sarah was eavesdropping from inside the tent. Her first, very human response, was to laugh to herself (Genesis 18:12). It wasn’t a malicious laugh, but a laugh of disbelief at something that seemed utterly impossible given her age and circumstances.
Later, when the Lord gently confronted her about it, asking, “Is anything too hard for the Lord?”, Sarah even tried to deny her laughter out of fear. Yet, God didn’t condemn her or retract His promise. Instead, He beautifully affirmed His power and faithfulness.
Sarah’s story reminds us that sometimes, our “cooked goose” moments aren’t due to outright disobedience, but from a struggle to fully grasp the bigness of God and His ability to do the impossible. It’s a powerful lesson in bringing our doubts and human limitations before Him, and learning to trust that His plans will prevail, even when they defy all logic and human understanding.
Here’s the good news. One of the most powerful safeguards against those snap judgments or hasty decisions that land us in hot water is simply this: taking intentional, consecrated time in prayer before the LORD. Before we act, before we speak, before we commit – we pause. We bring our thoughts, our desires, our fears, and our situations before Him, laying them bare. “Lord,” we pray, “show me your way. Guide me by your truth. Give me wisdom from above.”
This isn’t just a quick plea; it’s a patient, listening posture. It’s about cultivating a heart that truly seeks His counsel above all else, trusting that His leading will always be for our ultimate good and His glory. This deliberate communion with God allows Him to illuminate the path, reveal potential pitfalls, and infuse us with the courage and discernment needed to make choices that honor Him, no matter how “cooked” our situation may seem.
Let’s Reflect & Journal:
Take a moment in quiet reflection and consider:
- When was your last “cooked goose” circumstance – that situation where you felt stuck due to a difficult outcome?
- What did you do in that moment, and what was the immediate result?
- Looking back, what does the Word of God direct regarding that situation or the decisions you made?
- Knowing what you know now, and guided by God’s Word, what would you have done differently?
- In your situation, stop to hear God saying, “Is there anything too hard for the LORD?” How do you respond?
Dr. Buck / Christian Life Coach /
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