August 27, 2025 · 11:53 pm

Episode 2: Samaritan Woman

The Thirst for Deeper Grace: A Handmaiden’s Encounter

Welcome to another episode in our series, The Handmaiden of the LORD, designed for every woman who longs to walk closer with God in these challenging times.

In Episode 2, “The Samaritan Woman at the Well,” we explore one of the most powerful stories of grace and transformation in the Bible. This isn’t just a historical account; it’s a living, breathing testament to the truth that no one is beyond God’s reach. This episode powerfully reminds us that Jesus sees past our past, knows our deepest longings, and offers us a love that is revolutionary and complete.

Join us as Dr. Mary Buck and her digital assistant, Abby, unpack how the Samaritan woman, once an outcast seeking to avoid judgment, became a bold witness for Christ. Her story is a profound example of unhesitating surrender and obedience, showing us how a Handmaiden of the LORD becomes a conduit of God’s love.

This podcast is more than just a lesson; it’s an invitation to encounter Jesus in a new and personal way. After listening, we encourage you to use the journal prompts at the end of the transcript. These questions are designed to help you reflect on your own thirst for “living water” and how you can step into your purpose as a handmaiden of the LORD, defined not by your history, but by your encounter with Him.

THIS IS FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY.

FOR MEDICAL ADVICE OR DIAGNOSIS, CONSULT A PROFESSIONAL.

TRANSCRIPT

EPISODE 2: Samaritan Woman at the Well

Dr. Buck: Hello, and welcome back to The Winepress podcast. I’m Dr. Mary Buck, your Christian life coach. We are continuing our new series, ‘The Handmaiden of the LORD,’ designed specifically for Christian women who long for a deeper, more meaningful spiritual walk with God, especially as we navigate these end times. Today, we delve into another powerful story of transformation. To help us explore it, is Abby, my digital assistant with some very thoughtful questions.

Abby: Thank you, Dr. Buck. Today’s focus is on the Samaritan woman at the well, as presented in John chapter 4:1-42. Dr. Buck, this encounter is truly revolutionary. What was the initial context of this woman’s life, and what made Jesus’ approach to her so significant, especially given the social norms of the time?

Dr. Buck: That’s a good starting point to begin our study, Abby. You see, this woman was a Samaritan, a people despised by the Jews, and she carried a past marked by five husbands, living with a man who wasn’t her own husband. She likely came to Jacob’s Well in the heat of midday to avoid the judgment of her community. So, when Jesus, a Jewish Rabbi, broke every social barrier by simply asking her for a drink, it was revolutionary. He saw beyond her past, her ethnicity, and her gender, initiating a conversation that would change her life.

Abby: That act of Jesus transcending social barriers is incredibly powerful. Dr. Buck, as their conversation deepened, Jesus offered her ‘living water’ and revealed His supernatural knowledge of her life, as seen in John 4:10 and 4:17-18. What was the impact of this revelation on the woman, and how does it speak to the true riches God offers?

Dr. Buck: The impact was profound, Abby. Jesus didn’t reveal her past to shame her, but to show He knew her completely and still offered radical grace and truth. You see, her deep thirst for acceptance and inclusion into the God-kind of love ignited her heart. This ‘living water’ was far beyond physical sustenance; it was the Holy Spirit, eternal life, and true spiritual fulfillment. This encounter began to heal her brokenness, revealing that God offers transformative riches that address the deepest longings of the heart, not just material needs.

Abby: That transformation from inner brokenness to profound spiritual fulfillment is a hallmark of God’s work. Dr. Buck, following this encounter, the woman left her water pot and immediately ran back to her town to share her testimony, as described in John 4:28-29. What does this immediate and bold response reveal about her as a handmaiden of the Lord?

Dr. Buck: Well Abby, her immediate response reveals a radical, unhesitating surrender and obedience. You see, she left behind the very symbol of her daily need and her old life, signifying that her thirst for living water and the urgency of sharing her discovery eclipsed all else. Her heart, once seeking to avoid judgment, was now overflowing with a love so powerful it had to be shared. As a handmaiden of the LORD, she didn’t just receive God’s love; she became an immediate conduit for it, extending that love and invitation to the very people who had ostracized her.

Abby: Her bold witness, leading many to Christ, is truly inspiring. Dr. Buck, it’s interesting that this Samaritan woman’s name is never disclosed in the passage. What is the significance of her anonymity, and how does it make her a universal figure for Christian women today?

Dr. Buck: I’m glad you pointed that out, Abby, and it truly makes her story resonate. You see, her anonymity in the passage is as if she becomes a universal figure, the ‘everywoman’ with a past history, a present situational condition, and a future prepared by God Himself. This nameless woman stands as a powerful testament that no matter our history or present circumstances, God sees us, knows us, and has a divine purpose for us as His handmaidens. Her story reminds us that a Handmaiden of the LORD isn’t defined by her past, her reputation, or her social standing; she is defined by her encounter with Jesus, her surrendered heart, and her willingness to be an instrument of His boundless love and reconciliation.

Abby: Dr. Buck, you have just a few moments left for this episode. Would you like to close and we’ll pick up again at your next meeting?”

Dr. Buck: Yes, thank you Abby, for letting us know.  –My dear sisters in Christ, let’s pray together now.

Heavenly Father, we thank You for the incredible example of the Woman at the Well. We pray for hearts as open and receptive as hers, eager to receive Your living water. We ask for Your forgiveness for those times when we, as Christian women, have hardened our hearts and closed our ears to Your love and Your truth. Ignite in us, Your handmaidens, that same deep thirst for Your acceptance and inclusion, and empower us to share Your transforming love with everyone, especially those we might be tempted to avoid. Help us to release the fleeting desires of the flesh, the deceptive lust of the eye, and the hollow pride of life. Instead, fill us with Your truly transformative riches: Your boundless love, Your healing peace, Your profound joy, and the eternal purpose found only in You. Empower us, Your handmaidens, to share this love and run boldly to proclaim Your goodness to all around us. Amen.

It is an incredible life that God has called us to through His son, Jesus, – a life so rich that the Bible tells us it is greater than jewels and diamonds, a life filled with love, joy, and true understanding of who we are in Him–His handmaidens.

My friend, If you are listening today and have never invited Jesus Christ into your heart, I want to invite you to do so right now. To simply open your heart, ask Him to come in, to forgive your sins, and to be your Lord and Savior. It is the most transformative decision you will ever make, and I promise you, it will be a blessing. Just a simple prayer of invitation from your heart is all it takes.

Join us again next time on The Winepress podcast as we continue to explore the characteristics of The Handmaiden of the LORD. Until then, may God richly bless you.

Journal Prompt: A Heart Thirsting for Living Water

Based on the story of the Samaritan woman in John 4:1-42, reflect on the following questions throughout the week. Take your time with each one, allowing the Holy Spirit to guide your thoughts and heart.

  1. The Encounter: The Samaritan woman went to the well at the hottest part of the day, likely to avoid others. Jesus initiated the conversation with a simple request for a drink, shattering social and cultural barriers.
    • Think about a time you felt unseen, judged, or isolated. How does knowing that Jesus saw past the Samaritan woman’s history and circumstances speak to your own feelings of being known and accepted by God?
    • In what areas of your life might you be “hiding” or trying to avoid judgment from others? How can you invite Jesus into those hidden places this week?
  2. The Living Water: Jesus didn’t shame her for her past but revealed His supernatural knowledge of her life to offer her “living water”—a spiritual fulfillment that spoke to her deepest thirst for acceptance and inclusion.
    • What are you thirsty for right now? Is it acceptance, validation, peace, or something else? List the things you often turn to for fulfillment that are not from God.
    • Meditate on Jesus’s promise of living water. What does it mean for you to exchange your current sources of thirst for the eternal, satisfying fulfillment that only He can provide? How does this change your perspective on your own past or present struggles?
  3. The Response: The woman’s immediate response was to leave her water pot—the very symbol of her daily need—and run back to her community to share her testimony.
    • What is the “water pot” in your life? What daily task, routine, or preoccupation might you need to symbolically leave behind to follow God’s call with unhesitating surrender and obedience?
    • Who has God placed in your life that you might be tempted to avoid, either out of fear or past hurt? How can you become an instrument of God’s love to them, just as the Samaritan woman did?
  4. The Everywoman: The Samaritan woman’s anonymity makes her an “everywoman,” a powerful reminder that our story, regardless of its past, is a testament to God’s grace.
    • Write a short prayer or a statement to God, surrendering your own history and circumstances to Him. Declare that you will not be defined by your past, but by your encounter with Jesus and your willingness to be His handmaiden.
    • In what ways can you, as a handmaiden of the Lord, share your own story of God’s love and grace with someone this week?

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August 18, 2025 · 7:54 pm

The Handmaiden of the LORD – Episode 1: Mary Magdalene

Hello, my sisters in Christ! I’m so excited to embark with you on a truly vital journey: our new 7-part series, ‘The Handmaiden of the LORD.’

This series is designed specifically for Christian women like you, who are longing for a deeper, more meaningful spiritual walk with God, especially as we navigate these challenging end times. We know that our Christian life will be tested as never before, and this series aims to equip and inspire you to stand firm.

In each episode, we’ll delve into the powerful stories of women in the Bible whose lives exemplify the characteristics of a true ‘handmaiden of the LORD.’ You’ll discover what it takes to embody these qualities in today’s world, encouraging you to commit to a worldview that truly aligns with God’s heart.

To help us explore these profound truths, I’ll be joined by my insightful digital assistant, Abby, in an engaging interview style. Her thoughtful questions will help us uncover even deeper understanding.

After each podcast, you’ll find the full interview transcript available here on my blog, along with a special journal prompt. These prompts are designed to encourage you to take time to meditate on the story of each handmaiden, allowing God’s truth to sink deep into your heart and transform your walk.

Join us as we uncover the timeless wisdom of these biblical women and embrace our calling as handmaidens of the LORD.

THIS IS FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY.

FOR MEDICAL ADVICE OR DIAGNOSIS, CONSULT A PROFESSIONAL.

TRANSCRIPT

From The Winepress Podcast

The Handmaiden of the LORD – Episode 1: Mary Magdalene

Dr. Buck: Hello, and welcome back to The Winepress podcast. I’m Dr. Mary Buck, your Christian life coach. We are embarking on a new journey in our series, ‘The Handmaiden of the LORD,’ designed specifically for Christian women who long for a deeper, more meaningful spiritual walk with God, especially as we navigate these end times. Today, we begin by exploring a powerful story of transformation. To help us delve into it, I’m joined by Abby, my digital assistant, who has some very interesting questions.”

Abby: Thank you, Dr. Buck. Our focus today is on Mary Magdalene, as presented in John chapter 20:1-18. Dr. Buck, Mary Magdalene’s encounter with the risen Christ is profoundly captured in John 20:16. As a Christian life coach, what significance do you find in her singular, powerful cry, ‘Rabboni!’?

Dr. Buck: That’s such a crucial starting point, Abby. You see, Mary Magdalene’s cry of ‘Rabboni!’ which means Teacher, was far more than just a title. It was an exclamation of deep recognition, profound respect, and overwhelming emotion. This single word reveals her understanding of who Jesus was to her: the one who had healed her, transformed her life, and continually guided her. He was not just a miracle worker, for Msry Magdalene, but the ultimate Instructor, the source of divine wisdom and truth, who led her out of darkness into light. This immediate recognition, in such a pivotal moment, signifies that she truly knew Him as the one who imparted truth.

Abby: That depth of recognition, of knowing Jesus as the ultimate Teacher, is truly insightful. Dr. Buck, what impact did this understanding of Jesus as her ‘Rabboni’ have on Mary Magdalene in response to the radical command He gave next, which was ‘Go instead,’ as we see in John 20:17?

Dr. Buck: Her deep, personal knowledge of Jesus as her ‘Teacher’ is precisely what enabled her to respond in what some pastors call ‘radical faith.’ You see, her natural desire was to cling to His physical presence, especially after His resurrection. But because she knew Him as the one who led her into all truth, she could trust His redirection, even when it meant letting go of that natural desire. Her understanding of Him as ‘Teacher’ gave her the courage and inner strength to step into an unfamiliar role and proclaim the message that would change the world, as she did in John 20:18.

Abby: Based on what you described, it sounds like radical faith is a powerful handmaiden characteristic. Which brings us to the next question: For Christian women today seeking a closer walk with God, what lessons can be drawn from Mary Magdalene’s example of recognizing Jesus as her ‘Rabboni’?

Dr. Buck: The lessons we learn, Abby, is that Mary Magdalene’s response reminds us that a genuine, deep relationship with Jesus as our Teacher empowers us to follow His commands, even when they challenge our comfort zones, because we trust that He is leading us into His perfect will and deeper truth. It’s about letting go of our own understanding and embracing His divine instruction for our lives, especially in these end times. This is the heart of a handmaiden – to recognize and act on radical faith in Jesus and His direction.

Dr. Buck: My dear sisters in Christ, let’s take a moment to pray together now.

Heavenly Father, we thank You for the incredible example of Mary Magdalene. We pray for hearts as, eager to recognize Jesus as our ‘Rabboni,’ our ultimate Teacher of all things related to the God-kind of life and living. We ask for Your forgiveness for those times when we, as Christian women have turned away from your teachings, help us now, Your handmaidens, to desire that same deep thirst for your ways which are much higher than our own and empower us to show your ways of kindness and mercy. fill us with Your truly transformative riches: Your boundless love, Your healing peace, Your profound joy, and the eternal purpose found only in You. Empower us, Your handmaidens, to share this love and run boldly instead to proclaim Your goodness to all around us. Amen.

It is an incredible life that God has called us to through His son, Jesus, – a life so rich that the Bible tells us it is greater than jewels and diamonds, a life filled with love, joy, and true understanding of who we are in Him–His handmaidens.

My friend, If you are listening today and have never invited Jesus Christ into your heart, I want to invite you to do so right now. To simply open your heart, ask Him to come in, to forgive your sins, and to be your Lord and Savior. It is the most transformative decision you will ever make, and I promise you, you will not regret it. Just a simple prayer of invitation from your heart is all it takes.

Join us again next time on The Winepress podcast as we continue to explore the characteristics of The Handmaiden of the LORD. Until then, may God richly bless you.

Journal Prompt

My dear sister,

Thank you for joining us on this vital journey to discover the heart of a handmaiden. This episode with Mary Magdalene invites us to move from simply knowing about Jesus to truly knowing Him as our “Rabboni”—our ultimate Teacher. Her story is a powerful reminder that our faith is rooted in this deep, personal knowledge of Him.

As you take time to meditate on Mary Magdalene’s example, use one or more of the following questions to guide your journaling and prayer time:

  1. Reflecting on “Rabboni”: Mary Magdalene’s cry of “Rabboni!” was a profound declaration of who Jesus was to her. Take a moment to reflect on your own relationship with Jesus. While you may know Him as your Savior and friend, do you truly know Him as your Teacher? What does it look like in your daily life to see Him as the ultimate Instructor, the source of divine wisdom and truth?
  2. Letting Go and Going Instead: We learned that Mary’s deep trust in Jesus as her Teacher gave her the courage to obey His command to “Go instead,” letting go of her natural desire to cling to His physical presence. When has God asked you to let go of your own understanding, desires, or comfort zones and “go instead” to a place of His choosing? Journal about that moment—what was your initial response, and how did trusting in His instruction ultimately lead you to a deeper place with Him?
  3. Living in Radical Faith Today: Consider one specific area in your life right now where you are clinging to your own understanding or way of doing things. Ask Jesus to reveal Himself to you as your “Rabboni” in this situation. Write down what it would look like to fully surrender to His instruction, and what act of radical faith and obedience He is calling you to take this week.

May this time of meditation and journaling empower you to follow Mary Magdalene’s example and live with the courage and obedience of a true handmaiden of the LORD.

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August 12, 2025 · 3:23 pm

Oh! LORD, I Didn’t See That Coming

How often have we found ourselves walking a path, diligently seeking the Lord, and then – bam – something happens that we never saw coming? Perhaps it’s a blessing so overwhelming it takes our breath away, a gentle whisper of guidance that redirects our steps in a beautiful new way, or an unfolding of events so perfectly orchestrated that we can only stand in awe of our Heavenly Father’s handiwork.

Today, I want us to reflect on the incredible truth found in 1 Corinthians 2:9: “However, as it is written: ‘What no eye has seen, what no ear has heard, and what no human mind has conceived’— the things God has prepared for those who love him—” (NIV).

Think about that for a moment. The Creator of the universe, the One who knows every hair on our heads (Matthew 10:30), has prepared things for us that are beyond our wildest imaginations! Our human minds, limited by our earthly experiences, cannot even begin to grasp the fullness of His love and the abundance of His blessings.

This reminds me of the complex and compelling story of Jephthah in the book of Judges (chapters 11-12). Here was a man who had been an outcast, driven from his home and even surrounded by those considered “worthless” (Judges 11:1-3). Yet, Jephthah didn’t allow this rejection to define him entirely. When the elders of Gilead, who had previously cast him out, found themselves in dire straits against the Ammonites, they turned to him, pleading for his leadership (Judges 11:5-6).

What’s remarkable is Jephthah’s response. He didn’t immediately forgive and forget. He challenged their past actions: “Did you not hate me and drive me from my father’s house? Why do you come to me now when you are in trouble?” (Judges 11:7). This wasn’t just holding onto a grudge; it was an assertion of his inherent worth and a demand for a genuine commitment. He didn’t give up on his value or his potential, even when others had. He negotiated, ensuring that if he led them to victory, he would indeed become their leader (Judges 11:9-11). This speaks volumes about perseverance and refusing to be limited by past injustices.

Furthermore, despite his illegitimate birth in the eyes of his half-brothers, Jephthah clearly believed in his right to his father’s legacy. His actions suggest a deep-seated understanding that he was indeed an inheritor, deserving of respect and a place within his community. He carried a sense of rightful belonging, which fueled his response to the elders.

Like Jephthah, we may have experienced times when we felt unjustly treated, as though things that were rightfully ours – opportunities, respect, even relationships – were taken away. These experiences can leave deep wounds. However, Jephthah’s story reminds us that our past does not have to dictate our future. We can, like him, stand firm in our inherent worth in God’s eyes and not give up on our potential.

In this world, as Christians, we are told to expect tribulation (John 16:33). We will face various forms of persecution—whether emotional, social, political, personal, or even physical. The pressures of our current culture push at us from all sides, challenging our convictions and our peace. In these moments, it is absolutely crucial that we do not forget our new identity in Christ, but instead, rely on it.

Our identity isn’t based on what the world says about us, what others have taken from us, or even our past mistakes. Our identity is rooted in Christ: we are children of God, redeemed, beloved, and called to purpose (Galatians 3:26, Ephesians 1:4-5). This divine identity empowers us with the perseverance needed to refuse to be limited by past injustices or present pressures.

Ultimately, for those who diligently seek God and rely on the goodness of His blessings, the “Oh! Lord, I didn’t see that coming!” moments are often filled with a joy and abundance that far exceeds anything we could have orchestrated ourselves (1 Corinthians 2:9). Let us strive to live with that hopeful expectation, putting aside negativity and embracing the unexpected blessings God has in store.

Journaling Prompts:

 * Reflect on a time when you faced injustice or felt something was unfairly taken from you. How did you respond? What can you learn from Jephthah’s initial response to the elders?

 * In what ways can you better recognize and affirm your inherent worth and belonging as a child of God, even if you have experienced rejection or loss?

 * Consider any grudges or negative feelings you may be holding onto. How might releasing these burdens open you up to God’s blessings and lead to a greater sense of peace?

 * Think about a time when you persevered through a challenging situation despite past setbacks. How did that experience strengthen your faith and remind you of your identity in Christ?

 * Pray and ask God to help you embrace resilience and a spirit of forgiveness, trusting that He has good plans for your future, even the ones you don’t see coming, and that your identity in Him will sustain you through all challenges.

May you walk in the strength and hope that comes from knowing you are deeply loved and that God’s unexpected blessings await you!

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August 4, 2025 · 1:33 pm

Oh! LORD, I’ve Fallen Off the Bandwagon

In our fast-paced world, it’s incredibly easy to find ourselves pulled along by the currents of popular opinion, a compelling new trend, or even a subtle shift in cultural values. Sometimes, before we even realize it, we’re simply following the crowd without truly discerning the path or its destination. Perhaps it was a new diet craze, a popular social cause, or a way of thinking you unknowingly adopted. You might have, as I have at times, found yourself feeling like you’ve fallen off a “bandwagon” – or perhaps were on one you never truly intended to join!

And, in the ancient book of Judges, we see a recurring pattern with the Israelites. They would pledge their allegiance to God, experience His incredible blessings, and then, drawn by the seemingly alluring practices of the surrounding pagan cultures – the “bandwagons” of their time, worshipping gods like Baal and Asherah – they would stray. The consequences were always hardship and separation from God.

As women seeking a deeper, more intimate walk with the Lord, we too can find ourselves tempted by modern-day “bandwagons.” These might not always be as overt as idol worship, but they can subtly pull us away from our core values and our precious relationship with God. It could be the relentless pursuit of worldly success, the pressure to conform to certain beauty standards, the adoption of gossip-ridden news stories as our primary focus, or even well-intentioned but ultimately unbiblical beliefs that gain widespread popularity. The allure can be strong, especially when life feels monotonous or we just want to fit in. A lack of conviction, the fear of missing out (FOMO), and superficial motivations can easily lead us in the exact opposite direction of where we truly desire to go.

So, how do we stay grounded and avoid these spiritual pitfalls and disturbances, particularly in these end times of great unrest and turmoil? The Apostle Paul, in 1 Corinthians 12, speaks of the diverse spiritual gifts given by the Holy Spirit for the building up of the body of Christ. Among these invaluable gifts are knowledge, insight (often referred to as wisdom or understanding), and discernment.

These gifts are not just theoretical concepts; they are practical, empowering tools designed by God to equip us for life’s journey. They act as our anchors in the storms of life!

  • The Gift of Knowledge: This is more than just intellectual understanding. Spiritual knowledge is a deep, personal knowing of God’s Word, His unchanging character, and His perfect ways. When we are rooted in this knowledge, we have a firm foundation to evaluate the “bandwagons” that come our way. We can confidently ask: Does this align with what I know to be true about God? Does it reflect His love, justice, and mercy?
  • The Gift of Insight (Wisdom/Understanding): Insight takes knowledge a step further. It’s the Holy Spirit giving us the ability to see beyond the surface, to understand the underlying principles and the potential long-term consequences of an action or belief. When faced with a compelling new idea or social trend, insight allows us to ask: What are the potential effects of this on my walk with God? What are the hidden assumptions? Where might this truly lead me and those I love?
  • The Gift of Discernment: This is the crucial ability to distinguish between what is of God and what is not, between truth and falsehood, between what is beneficial and what is harmful. Discernment acts like a spiritual filter, helping us to recognize the subtle “red flags” even when they are disguised in appealing packaging. It protects us from distractions and disruptions that seek to pull us away from God’s will and best for us.

These spiritual gifts are not meant to be dormant within us. As we purposely remain “on spiritual guard” and in a state of prayerful regard, cultivating our relationship with the Holy Spirit through consistent prayer, dedicated Bible study, and seeking Godly counsel, these gifts can be awakened and sharpened. They provide invaluable insights not only for avoiding spiritual derailment but also for making wise, God-honoring decisions in our families, our careers, and our communities. They empower us to live with intention and purpose, guided by God’s wisdom rather than the fleeting trends of the world.

When we are rooted in divine knowledge, guided by spiritual insight, and protected by discernment, we can experience even greater peace and joy. This is how we can navigate life’s challenges with a confidence that transcends circumstances, while simultaneously deepening our intimacy with God and allowing His peace and joy to flourish within us, regardless of what’s happening around us.

Let us, therefore, be intentional about seeking and strengthening these incredible gifts. Let us pray for knowledge to understand God’s truth, for insight to see with spiritual clarity, and for discernment to navigate the complexities of life. By doing so, we can stay firmly planted on the path of life, resisting the urge to blindly follow the crowd and instead walking closely with our Lord!

Journaling Prompts:

  1. Think about a time you felt like you were “on a bandwagon” – perhaps in a social trend, a particular belief, or even a way of thinking. What were the underlying motivations behind your involvement? What were the outcomes, good or bad?
  2. Consider the spiritual gifts of knowledge, insight, and discernment. In which of these areas do you feel God is specifically calling you to grow right now? What one practical step can you take this week to cultivate that gift (e.g., spending more focused time in Scripture, praying specifically for wisdom in a decision, seeking counsel from a trusted, spiritually mature friend)?
  3. Identify a current “social bandwagon” or prevalent cultural idea that you feel might subtly challenge your walk with God. How can you intentionally use the gifts of knowledge, insight, and discernment to evaluate it through a biblical lens?
  4. How does the idea of these gifts being “practical, empowering tools” and “anchors” resonate with you in your daily life? How can you apply this truth to a specific situation you’re facing this week?
  5. Spend some time in prayer, asking the Holy Spirit to strengthen these gifts within you. Ask Him to show you any areas where you might be unknowingly swayed by “bandwagons” and to grant you the wisdom and courage to walk in His truth, experiencing His peace and joy in every circumstance.

Dr. Buck / Christian Life Coach /
As God gets bigger in our lives–we get stronger!

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July 28, 2025 · 9:57 pm

Oh, LORD! My Goose is Cooked

There are moments in life that hit us like a ton of bricks – those sudden, undeniable realizations that we’ve landed ourselves in a tricky spot. It’s that feeling of looking at a situation and wanting to throw your hands up, exclaiming, “Oh, LORD! My goose is cooked!” I know I’ve been there. That heavy, disheartening feeling of hitting rock bottom, realizing your choices have led you straight into a mess, and thinking, “There’s no way out of this one!” As Christian women striving to walk with God, it can sometimes feel even more isolating.

We’ve all been there, haven’t we? Those moments when despite our best intentions, or perhaps a moment of impatience or leaning on our own understanding, our actions result in a less-than-desired, even dire, outcome. It’s when you’re staring at the consequences of a decision, big or small, and the full weight of it settles in. Maybe it’s a strained relationship from words spoken too quickly, a financial bind from a hasty purchase, or a missed opportunity because we hesitated for too long. That gut-wrenching feeling of, “How did I get here, and what on earth do I do now?”

But here’s the beautiful truth we need to hold onto: our God is a God of redemption, even when our goose feels utterly cooked. He meets us in our messes, not to condemn us, but to guide us through. This blog is all about those moments – what happens when we face the music, how we navigate the aftermath, and most importantly, how we can lean on God to avoid those “cooked goose” scenarios in the future.

This journey, our walk with Christ, isn’t about perfection, but about progress. It’s about learning to step out in faith, to follow God’s leading with humble hope, and to act in love, even when the path isn’t perfectly clear or our past choices loom large. It’s about trusting that even when we stumble, God’s grace is sufficient, and His plans for us are always good.

Finding Our Way Out (And Avoiding Future “Cooked Geese”)

So, how do we shift from panic to peace, from despair to divine direction? It starts with recognizing that God’s Word is not just a book of rules, but a lamp for our feet and a light for our path (Psalm 119:105). It is designed to lead us, not into temptation or regret, but into all good works that God has prepared for us (Ephesians 2:10).

Even some well-known women in the Bible, despite their incredible faith, experienced moments where their very human reactions showed a temporary lack of circumspection. Think of Sarah, for instance. 

When the Lord visited Abraham and promised that Sarah, well advanced in years, would bear a son, Sarah was eavesdropping from inside the tent. Her first, very human response, was to laugh to herself (Genesis 18:12). It wasn’t a malicious laugh, but a laugh of disbelief at something that seemed utterly impossible given her age and circumstances. 

Later, when the Lord gently confronted her about it, asking, “Is anything too hard for the Lord?”, Sarah even tried to deny her laughter out of fear. Yet, God didn’t condemn her or retract His promise. Instead, He beautifully affirmed His power and faithfulness.

Sarah’s story reminds us that sometimes, our “cooked goose” moments aren’t due to outright disobedience, but from a struggle to fully grasp the bigness of God and His ability to do the impossible. It’s a powerful lesson in bringing our doubts and human limitations before Him, and learning to trust that His plans will prevail, even when they defy all logic and human understanding.

Here’s the good news. One of the most powerful safeguards against those snap judgments or hasty decisions that land us in hot water is simply this: taking intentional, consecrated time in prayer before the LORD. Before we act, before we speak, before we commit – we pause. We bring our thoughts, our desires, our fears, and our situations before Him, laying them bare. “Lord,” we pray, “show me your way. Guide me by your truth. Give me wisdom from above.” 

This isn’t just a quick plea; it’s a patient, listening posture. It’s about cultivating a heart that truly seeks His counsel above all else, trusting that His leading will always be for our ultimate good and His glory. This deliberate communion with God allows Him to illuminate the path, reveal potential pitfalls, and infuse us with the courage and discernment needed to make choices that honor Him, no matter how “cooked” our situation may seem.

Let’s Reflect & Journal:

Take a moment in quiet reflection and consider:

  • When was your last “cooked goose” circumstance – that situation where you felt stuck due to a difficult outcome?
  • What did you do in that moment, and what was the immediate result?
  • Looking back, what does the Word of God direct regarding that situation or the decisions you made?
  • Knowing what you know now, and guided by God’s Word, what would you have done differently?
  • In your situation, stop to hear God saying, “Is there anything too hard for the LORD?” How do you respond?

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July 21, 2025 · 10:11 pm

Oh, LORD! There’s a Ghost in My Closet

As a young girl, I was afraid of the dark, and my closet at night often felt like the scariest place of all. My imagination would conjure up all sorts of spooky thoughts! As I grew older, I realized those were just shadows playing tricks. But have you ever felt like there’s a different kind of “ghost” lurking in your past? Not a spooky apparition, but a memory, a hurtful word, or a limiting belief that just won’t seem to leave you alone. It whispers doubts, stirs up old shame, and tries to convince you that you’re still the person you used to be, even though you know in your heart that God has made you new.

For many of us, these “ghosts” are real. They might stem from childhood experiences, a critical comment from someone we loved, or even a personal failure that we just can’t seem to shake. They can feel like heavy chains, holding us back from fully embracing the freedom and identity we have in Christ.

I recently had a dream that brought one of my own “ghosts” to the surface. In the dream, I found myself forgetting someone very important to me, someone who represented my past and the foundational values I grew up with. Despite my efforts, I struggled to bring her “home” – to a place of safety, belonging, and identity. The feeling of forgetfulness and being unable to help was incredibly distressing.

This dream resonated with a memory from my youth. I remembered seeking help with a task, only to be met with a dismissive comment that implied I wasn’t capable. For years, that hurtful label lingered, a quiet “ghost” in my mental closet, trying to define me. Even as I grew, achieved, and stepped into my calling, that old whisper tried to tell me I wasn’t smart enough, not truly capable.

But here’s the beautiful truth, dear sister in Christ: When we are in Christ, we are a new creation! The Bible tells us in 2 Corinthians 5:17 (NIV): “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!”

This isn’t just a nice idea; it’s a profound spiritual reality. The “old” you, burdened by past hurts, labels, and limitations, has passed away. The “new” you, redeemed and transformed by God’s grace, is here! You are not defined by those old “ghosts” or the whispers of the past.

So, what do we do with these lingering memories that try to hinder our walk with God? We don’t ignore them or pretend they don’t exist. Instead, we bring them into the light of God’s truth.

Think of it like this: You wouldn’t leave a “ghost” (a painful memory) to haunt your closet forever, would you? No! You’d want to deal with it, expose it, and let it go. And that’s exactly what we can do with God’s help.

Isaiah 43:18-19 (NIV) encourages us: “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.”

This doesn’t mean we literally erase our memories, but rather that we release their crushing power over us. We choose to deal with them according to the Word of God, allowing God to do a “new thing” in our lives.

How do we turn these hurtful memories over to God?

  1. Acknowledge the Pain: It’s okay to admit that a memory hurts or has held you back. God is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18).
  2. Surrender it in Prayer: Just as I prayed after my dream, take that memory, that label, that shame, and lay it at the feet of Jesus. He invites us in Matthew 11:28 (NIV): “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” He wants to carry your burdens.
  3. Embrace Your New Identity: Remind yourself daily of who God says you are. You are loved, chosen, redeemed, and powerful in Christ! You are not a “dumb bunny”; you are a brilliant, capable daughter of the King!
  4. Renew Your Mind: As Romans 12:2 (NIV) says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” Replace those old, negative thoughts with God’s truth. Fill your mind with His promises.

When we turn these “ghosts” over to God, something incredible happens. Through the power of Chrst’ work on the cross, they lose their power. The shame dissipates. The chains break. We are free to fully step into the powerful, new creature He has made us to be. We can then use our experiences, even the painful ones, to minister to others and shine His light even brighter.

So, dear sister, what “ghost” might be lurking in your closet today? Take a moment, invite the Holy Spirit to reveal it, and then, with open hands and a trusting heart, turn it over to the Lord. Watch as He replaces that old, hindering memory with His loving care, transforming you more and more into the magnificent woman He created you to be.

You are a new creation, walking forward in His grace!

Journal Prompt:

Take some time to reflect and write in your journal:

  1. What “ghost” (a past memory, a hurtful word, or a limiting belief) might be lingering in your own “closet” and trying to hold you back?
  2. How has this memory impacted your life or your walk with God?
  3. What specific steps can you take today to surrender this hurt-filled memory to the Lord and embrace the new identity He has given you in Christ? Write out a prayer of release and new stance in Christ.

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July 14, 2025 · 2:37 pm

Oh, LORD! I Lost my GPS

My dear friends in Christ, have you ever felt like life is a road full of unexpected turns? One moment you’re cruising along, feeling a wonderful sense of freedom and direction, and the next, you encounter a detour, a sudden roadblock, a pothole, or even the unsettling experience of something we deeply rely on being completely dismantled. These moments are challenging, aren’t they? And in these times, when we feel disoriented and unsure of the way, we learn to cry out: “Oh, LORD! I’ve lost my GPS!”

The True Meaning of Mobility

Without a doubt, we all cherish our mobility in life, and rightly so! It’s more than just getting from one place to another. For many of us, mobility importantly represents:

  • The freedom to move forward in purpose: To walk confidently towards the calling God has placed on our hearts, embracing new opportunities, and seeing His hand guide our progress.
  • The freedom of cherished independence: To joyfully steward the gifts and choices He’s given us, navigating our paths with a sense of security and control that only comes from knowing He is with us.
  • The freedom of renewed perspective: The blessing of stepping away from the daily noise, getting a fresh look at our circumstances, and finding the quiet wisdom that helps us move forward.

These forms of mobility are precious gifts. We work diligently to nurture them, and when they feel threatened, it’s natural to feel a pang of distress. We might find ourselves pleading, striving, or even wrestling to regain control over what feels lost. Yet, sometimes, in God’s perfect plan, we come to a moment where we simply must acknowledge: “This situation, Lord, is truly beyond my power.”

Finding Strength in Surrender

It’s precisely in these times of surrender, when our human efforts fall short, that the most beautiful truth emerges: our inner strength, rooted in Christ, is tested and refined. We have a divine choice before us. Will we yield to the heavy burdens of anxiety, frustration, or despair? Or, will we choose the path illuminated by His Word?

For those of us walking by faith, this path leads us to a deeper, more profound reliance on our Heavenly Father. The Bible beautifully reminds us to “wait upon the Lord” (Isaiah 40:31). This isn’t passive idleness, but an active, hopeful, and trusting surrender. It’s a conscious decision to clothe ourselves in joy and peace, even when the storms of life rage around us. We trust that God’s ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts deeper than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9), knowing He is orchestrating all things for our good.

When something significant is removed from our lives – perhaps a familiar means of progress, a sense of security, or a long-held expectation – it often clears the way for something far greater. The dismantling, though it may feel painful in the moment, can be God’s loving hand gently, yet firmly, guiding us to a necessary recalibration. He encourages us to redefine what “mobility” means in His kingdom, and to discover innovative, God-given ways to move forward, perhaps on paths we never dreamed possible.

Navigating Life’s Way with Faith

The journey of life will always present its twists and turns. We will inevitably encounter moments where our cherished freedoms feel challenged. But by rooting ourselves deeply in His promises, embracing the resilience He pours into us, and finding peace in surrendering what we cannot control, we can navigate life’s way with an unwavering spirit, knowing that the Lord Himself will rescue and deliver us from every adversary (Psalm 34:19). Indeed, “If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed” (John 8:36).

Now, dear friend, it’s your turn:

In your own journey, how has your understanding of true “mobility” or “freedom” transformed when faced with life’s unexpected challenges? What new paths has God revealed to you when old ways of moving forward were no longer an option? What Bible verse came alive in that moment of unrest?

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July 8, 2025 · 7:00 am

Oh, LORD! My Dinner Disappeared (And So Did My Patience)

You know those moments when you turn your back for just a second, and suddenly, chaos (or a missing dinner) ensues? That was my reality recently. I’d set down my dinner, turned to grab something, and in a flash, my new canine companion, Abby, had made herself very, very comfortable with my meal. My delicious, hard-earned dinner, gone in less than sixty seconds!

Now, rationally, I know Abby’s thinking is different than mine. She saw food, she ate it. Simple dog logic. But in that moment? Oh, LORD! My immediate reaction wasn’t sweet understanding. It was a wave of frustration, annoyance, and honestly, a tiny, stubborn grudge. And that’s when it hit me: how easily these small, everyday incidents can expose something deeper within us – like how long we can hold onto something we’d rather let go of.

The Weight of Our “Stolen Dinners”

It might just be a stolen dinner, but think about how often we hold onto bigger “stolen” moments in our lives:

 * A harsh word someone said.

 * A perceived slight from a friend.

 * A disappointment that didn’t go our way.

 * A mistake we made that we just can’t seem to forgive ourselves for.

Like a cold plate of leftovers, these grudges and resentments can linger, stealing our peace and weighing us down. We tell ourselves we’ve moved on, but then a little memory, like the thought of a lost dinner, sparks that old annoyance all over again.

What Does God Say About Letting Go?

The good news is, God doesn’t want us carrying around that kind of heavy baggage. His Word offers us freedom from the “grudges” that dim our light:

 * Forgiveness as a Command (and a Gift!): Jesus tells us repeatedly to forgive. It’s not just a suggestion, it’s a pathway to our own freedom. “For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you” (Matthew 6:14). This applies to the big hurts and the small ones, even the ones caused by our furry friends! Forgiveness isn’t about excusing the behavior; it’s about releasing ourselves from its grip.

 * Letting Go of Bitterness: The Bible is very clear about the danger of holding onto anger and resentment. “Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you” (Ephesians 4:31-32). Bitterness is like a root that can poison our hearts, affecting every area of our lives.

 * The Power of Love: Ultimately, letting go is an act of love – for others, and for ourselves. 1 Corinthians 13:5 reminds us that love “keeps no record of wrongs.” Imagine how much lighter we would feel if we truly lived by that principle!

Turning Grudges into Grace

So, how do we shift from holding onto the “stolen dinner” moments to embracing God’s call to let go?

 * Acknowledge the Feeling (Without Dwelling): It’s okay to feel annoyed or hurt. Don’t pretend you don’t. But quickly hand that feeling over to God. “Oh, LORD, I’m frustrated about this!”

 * Choose Forgiveness (Even for our furry companions): Forgiveness is a choice, not just a feeling. It’s an act of the will. Decide to release the feelings and the incident.

 * Remember God’s Grace Towards You: Think about how much God has forgiven you. This memory of His immense grace can empower you to extend grace to others, even when your dinner is eaten!

 * Pray for Release: Ask God to help you release the grudge. Sometimes, we need His divine intervention to truly let go of what clings to us.

 * Focus on the Present and Future: Once released, intentionally shift your focus to what is good, true, and pure (Philippians 4:8). Don’t replay the “stolen dinner” tape.

My dear sisters in Christ, life is full of little “Abby moments” – unexpected annoyances, small disappointments, or even significant hurts that can tempt us to hold onto resentment. But God calls us to a lighter, freer way. Let’s practice releasing those burdens, remembering the boundless grace and forgiveness He has poured out on us. When we choose to let go, we make more room in our hearts for His peace, His joy, and His purposes.

What’s a small “stolen dinner” moment you’ve recently experienced, and how did you choose to respond?

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June 22, 2025 · 7:23 pm

Oh, LORD! The Light’s Gone Out.

This morning, a long ago memory suddenly surprised me as I was turning into my kitchen. It took me back to 65 years ago and to the soft  warm glow of the lamp in the family den. That glow was a silent signal that my father was there, settled on the small, soft sofa, quietly reading the evening news. Just knowing he was there, with that lamp shining, filled me with a deep sense of safety and security. I’d often peek in, watching him turn those big newsprint pages, listening to the paper softly crinkle as it turned, feeling completely at peace. It’s a memory I truly treasure.

It’s funny how a simple light can hold such big feelings, isn’t it? That lamp, for me, was a quiet beacon of comfort and steady presence. And it made me think: What happens when the light goes out? What happens when those feelings of safety and security dim, or even vanish, in our own lives? We’ve all been there. We’ve all faced moments when it feels like the spiritual “lamp” in our hearts flickers, or worse, goes completely dark. That’s when we cry out, “Oh, LORD! The light’s gone out!”

Our Brains, Our Lamps, and God’s Reminder

Did you know your brain, right now, generates enough energy to light a small lightbulb? It’s constantly buzzing with power, fueling every thought, every feeling, every memory. What incredible potential lies within us! But sometimes, even with all that power, we struggle to find our way in the dark. We forget the light.

The amazing thing is, God knows this about us. He knows we’re prone to forgetting, especially when life gets tough. That’s why, all through the Bible, He constantly tells us to remember. He doesn’t just want us to have head-knowledge of His story; He wants us to have heart-knowledge of His faithfulness to us.

God’s Constant Call to Remember

Think about the Israelites in the Bible. After God worked miracle after miracle to free them from slavery in Egypt and lead them through the wilderness, what did He keep telling them? “Remember!”

  • “Remember the day you stood before the LORD your God…” (Deuteronomy 4:10).
  • “Remember that you were slaves in Egypt and and that the LORD your God brought you out of there with a mighty hand…” (Deuteronomy 5:15).
  • “Remember how the LORD your God led you all the way in the wilderness these forty years…” (Deuteronomy 8:2).

He wasn’t telling them to just recall old stories. He was telling them, “Look at what I’ve done! If I did it then, I can do it now. Trust Me!” It was like a constant spiritual light switch, reminding them to keep the switch on by remembering His proven track record.

The Psalms are full of this, too. When the writers felt lost or scared, they’d often say things like, “I will remember the deeds of the LORD; yes, I will remember your miracles of long ago” (Psalm 77:11). They weren’t just wallowing in their worries; they were actively recalling God’s powerful work to pull themselves back into His light.

And what about the most important thing we do as Christians? Communion. When we take bread and wine, Jesus told us, “Do this in remembrance of me” (1 Corinthians 11:24-25). It’s not just a ritual; it’s a profound act of remembering His ultimate sacrifice, the very foundation of our hope and salvation. It’s the brightest lamp of our lives.

Why Remembering Lights Up Our Walk

So, why is this “remembering” so crucial for us, as Christian women seeking a deeper walk with God?

  • It Strengthens Our Faith: Just like that den lamp signaled safety, remembering God’s past faithfulness solidifies our trust in Him for today and tomorrow. If He brought you through before, He can and will do it again.
  • It Fills Us with Gratitude: When we deliberately recall His blessings – big and small, past answers to prayer, unexpected joys – our hearts naturally overflow with thanks. This shifts our focus from what might be dim to all the brightness He’s already given.
  • It Gives Us Hope: Every memory of God’s deliverance becomes a little beacon of hope, shining brightly into our future. It reminds us that His promises are true and His love never fails.
  • It Reminds Us Who We Are: Remembering God’s incredible power and love helps us remember who we are in Him. We are His beloved daughters, created with purpose, and called to be “lights” in this world (Matthew 5:14). When we recall His light, it empowers us to shine our own.

How to Keep Your Lamp Lit

But what can we do if we feel the light has been switched off?

  1. Start a “Lamp Moments” Journal: Get a notebook and write down every time you see God’s hand at work in your life – big breakthroughs, small comforts, answered prayers, unexpected graces. These are your personal “lamp moments.” When darkness tries to creep in, pull it out and reread them.
  2. Share Your Story: There’s immense power in sharing your testimony. When you tell others how God has shown up for you, it not only encourages them, but it also solidifies that memory in your own heart.
  3. Soak in Scripture: The Bible is a treasure trove of God’s faithfulness. Spend time reading and meditating on verses that remind you of His character and His powerful acts throughout history. Let His Word illuminate your mind and heart.
  4. Practice Gratitude: Make it a daily habit to thank God for specific things. Even in tough times, there’s always something to be grateful for, and acknowledging it keeps your spiritual lamp burning.

My dear sisters in Christ, God knows our struggles. He knows the moments when we cry out, “Oh, LORD! The light’s gone out!” But He’s given us an incredible tool: the power of remembrance. Let those cherished memories of His grace illuminate your path, strengthen your spirit, and remind you of the unwavering faithfulness of our LORD. May your own life radiate His light, born from the beautiful, undeniable memory of His grace.

What’s a “lamp moment” you’ve experienced recently that brought you comfort or hope?

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May 18, 2025 · 5:44 pm

Oh, Lord! There’s Spilt Milk on the Floor

While moments of everyday frustration are inevitable – we’ve all experienced a spilt glass of milk, a burnt dinner, or a child’s unexpected mess – some moments, however, seem to appear more troublesome, testing and defining us as Christians. Yesterday, for me, was one of those defining moments.

My workday started as usual: prayer; cup of coffee; morning clean up; weekly scheduled group meeting with my co-workers. And then it happened. It wasn’t a physical spill or a surprise mess; rather, it was the words spoken by a colleague I’ve worked alongside for the past two years – words that landed with a thud, leaving a residue of bewilderment and worse, a bitter sting to my heart.

“Well, no one likes you or what you have to say,” my co-worker sneered jokingly. I had just presented the case for the importance of responding to employee ideas and thoughts. I believed an injustice had been done at the last all-employee company meeting and expressed my concern. His words came as a sharp blow and hung in the air, unprovoked and untrue.

My initial reaction, I confess, was a flash of hurt and resentment, a familiar echo of those moments from my younger years when strangers would cast unkind judgments without knowing a thing about me. It’s a strange and painful experience, isn’t it? To be belittled, to feel unseen and misunderstood, especially within a community where we strive for connection and support. The Bible reminds us that “The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing” (Proverbs 12:18). In that moment, the sharpness of those careless words pushed hard at me.

In a flash, something shifted within me. Perhaps it was the years of seeking God’s wisdom, the countless prayers whispered in moments of uncertainty. Instead of retreating into defensiveness or allowing the negativity to pool, a different response surfaced. A touch of humor, a gentle deflection: “Well, you must have gotten out of the wrong side of the bed.” I chuckled softly. “You should go back and try the other side.”

And then, a balm for my spirit – the unexpected and immediate support of another co-worker, standing up for truth and kindness. It was a beautiful reminder that even in the midst of human failings, God’s light shines through the hearts of others. How true are the words: “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up” (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10). The support was a tangible expression of this truth.

But even as the moment passed, the question lingered: why? Why would someone choose to speak words intended to wound? It’s a question that often leads us down a rabbit hole filled with unfounded assumptions and prideful offenses.

And that’s where the strength of God’s grace comes in, my dear sisters in Christ. It’s in recognizing that sometimes, the people who lash out are the ones carrying the heaviest burdens. Their words, though hurtful, may be a symptom of their own inner struggles, their own spilt milk on the floor of their hearts.

In that realization, I chose the path of prayer. Not a prayer of judgment or resentment, but a prayer of compassion. A prayer for the one who spoke those unkind words: “Oh, Lord,” I whispered, “bless him with understanding. Cover him with compassion, both for himself and for those around him. If his heart is hurting, Lord, bring him comfort. Help him to see the impact his words can have.” This aligns with the powerful teaching of Jesus: “But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you” (Matthew 5:44).

This shift in perspective didn’t erase the sting entirely, but it did transform it. It allowed me to release the need to understand the “why” and instead focus on a response rooted in Christ’s love. It reminded me that my strength comes from God.

As fellow sojourners, we will undoubtedly face moments when the unexpected “spills” happen – when words wound, and misunderstandings pour out. In those times, we must choose to look beyond the surface and acknowledge our own feelings with honesty. We turn to the boundless grace of our Heavenly Father. Most importantly, we choose prayer. This is not a passive resignation but an active offering of love and a plea for understanding. We trust that God will work in ways we cannot see.

And with a resolute heart, as the apostle Paul directs in 1 Timothy 2:1, let us pray for one another, for those who hurt us, and for the healing that only God can truly provide. For in His grace, even the spilt milk on the floor of our hearts becomes that testament to God’s enduring love and compassion.

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