September 16, 2025 · 2:59 pm

Episode 5: Samson’s Mother–An Open Heart

In this episode, we journey back to the book of Judges to meet a woman of profound faith, known only as Manoah’s wife, the mother of Samson. Often overshadowed by the dramatic stories of her son, this episode honors her as a true Handmaiden of the LORD, a woman whose life offers a powerful testament to trusting God in the midst of longing and uncertainty.

We explore her story from a woman’s perspective, focusing on her initial barrenness and the deep societal and personal pain that came with it. Her journey begins not with a birth, but with a direct and personal encounter with the Angel of the LORD, who appears to her first with the miraculous promise of a son. This encounter highlights a central theme: God has a plan for each of us.

The episode contrasts her unwavering faith with her husband Manoah’s need for confirmation. While he seeks a name and a visible sign, she simply believes the divine message. Her trust is a powerful model for us today, showing that a deeper walk with God often requires us to let go of our need for intellectual certainty and embrace a posture of relational wonder.

We also dive into her profound wisdom at the moment of the Angel’s ascension. When Manoah fears they will die for seeing God, she calmly and confidently reassures him, saying, “If the LORD had meant to kill us, He would not have accepted a burnt offering…nor shown us all these things.” This quote, in its simplicity, reveals her deep understanding of God’s character. She understood God’s nature not through an elusive name, but through His consistent actions of love, provision, and grace.

Ultimately, this episode is about a woman who, though nameless in the text, was profoundly known by God. Her life reminds us that our identity is not defined by our circumstances, our past, or even our name, but by our relationship with the God who calls us His own. Her story is a beacon of hope for every woman seeking a closer walk with the Lord, teaching us to trust in His promises, embrace His mystery, and find our true identity as His beloved handmaidens.

THIS IS FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY.

FOR MEDICAL ADVICE OR DIAGNOSIS, CONSULT A PROFESSIONAL.

SCRIPT

Dr. Buck: Welcome back to Handmaiden of the LORD, the Winepress podcast is dedicated to helping Christian women walk in a deeper relationship with God. I’m Doctor Mary Buck, your Christian life coach, and today, we’re looking at a familiar story through a fresh lens – the account of Manoah and his wife in Judges chapter 13, the parents of Samson. But instead of focusing solely on Manoah, we’re going to walk in the sandals of his wife, a woman of profound faith often overshadowed in the narrative. And as always, I’m joined by my digital assistant, Abby, who has some thought-provoking questions to begin our discussion. 

Abby: Thank you doctor Buck for that introduction. Thinking about Manoah’s wife, we first encounter her when the Angel of the Lord appears to her with the incredible promise of a son. doctor Buck, what do you think her initial reaction might have been, given her previous struggle with barrenness, and what does her immediate belief in the messenger tell us about her heart towards God?

Dr. Buck: That’s a beautiful starting point for us, Abby. Imagine her years of longing, perhaps even quiet despair, in a culture where a woman’s worth was so often tied to her ability to bear children. Then, suddenly, this divine messenger appears to her, not her husband, with news that directly addresses her deepest pain. Her immediate belief, before any proof or confirmation, speaks volumes. It suggests a heart open to God’s intervention, a deep-seated faith that recognizes truth even in the unexpected. It echoes Mary’s response in Luke 1:38, “Let it be to me according to your word.” Both women, facing extraordinary circumstances, responded with faith and submission.

Abby: What a powerful parallel. Later in the story, Manoah, upon hearing his wife’s account, prays for the Angel to reappear to him. Doctor Buck, why do you think there was this difference in their initial responses? And what can we learn from Manoah’s need for personal confirmation versus his wife’s initial trust?

Dr. Buck: That’s such a key point, Abby. Manoah’s response, while understandable from a human perspective, highlights a contrast in their ways of relating to God. His prayer for a repeat encounter could stem from a desire for intellectual certainty, a need to verify through his own experience. His wife, on the other hand, seemed to operate more from a place of relational trust. She encountered the divine and believed. For us as Christian women, this can be a powerful reminder that God often speaks to us in unique and personal ways. We don’t always need the same validation as others; our individual encounters with God are valid and real. It speaks to the intimacy God desires with each of us, as we see in Isaiah 43:1, “Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine.” He meets us where we are.

Abby: That leads to another interesting moment. When the Angel finally appears to Manoah and refuses to reveal his name, calling it “secret” or “wonderful” (Judges 13:18), Manoah then fears for their lives after witnessing the Angel ascend in the flame. However, his wife offers a profound insight, saying, “If the LORD had meant to kill us, he would not have accepted a burnt offering and grain offering from our hands, or shown us all these things” (Judges 13:23). Doctor Buck, what does her reasoning reveal about her understanding of God’s character, especially compared to Manoah’s fear?

Dr. Buck: Her wisdom in that moment is truly remarkable, Abby. While Manoah is focused on the potential danger of encountering the divine, his wife understands God’s heart through His actions. He accepted their offering; He revealed these miraculous things to them. Why would a God intending harm do that? Her response beautifully illustrates the concept of “awe” when we recognize how wonderful God is — beyond what we can ask or think. She wasn’t trying to conquer God intellectually; she was experiencing His character through His interaction with them. She trusted in His goodness and His promises. For us, this is a powerful lesson in discerning God’s will. We don’t always need to understand everything about Him; we can trust His loving character, revealed through His Word and His actions in our lives.

Abby: That’s a beautiful way to put it, doctor Buck. So, as we reflect on the story of Manoah’s wife, and mother-to-be, what is the key takeaway for our listeners today, those Christian women seeking a deeper walk with God?

Dr. Buck: Samson’s mother teaches us so much, Abby. She shows us the power of immediate faith, the validity of our personal encounters with God, and the importance of discerning His heart through His love and provision rather than solely through intellectual understanding. Like her, we are called to be handmaidens of the LORD, trusting in His promises and finding our strength not in knowing all the answers, but in knowing the One who holds all things. Her story reminds us that even in the midst of our longings and uncertainties, God sees us, speaks to us, and desires a deep and personal relationship with each of us.

Abby: Doctor Buck, it looks like we’ve come to the close of this session. Would you like to lead our listeners in prayer and we’ll pick up again at our next podcast?

Dr. Buck: Thank you, Abby, for keeping us on track and, yes, before we close, let’s go before the throne of grace in prayer.

Heavenly Father, thank you for the story of Manoah’s wife, Samson’s mother. Please forgive us of the times we’ve relied on mere human knowledge and forgotten how to stand in awe before your great and mighty presence. Give us a heart open to your intervention, a deep-seated faith that recognizes truth even in the unexpected. Help us to truly echo Mary’s response in Luke 1:38, “Let it be to me according to your word.” Help us to accept by faith your love and grace as we face extraordinary circumstances, in these end days, teach us to respond to Your Will with faith and submission. In Jesus name, we pray.

My friend, If you are listening today and have never invited Jesus Christ into your heart, I want to invite you to do so right now. To simply open your heart, ask Him to come in, to forgive your sins, and to be your Lord and Savior. It is the most transformative decision you will ever make, and I promise you, you will not regret it. Just a simple prayer of invitation from your heart is all it takes.

Thank you for joining us today on Handmaiden of the LORD. And remember, as God gets bigger in your life, you get stronger.

Journal Prompts and Activity

Journal Prompts: A Heart of Open Faith

Based on the story of Samson’s mother in Judges 13, reflect on the following questions throughout the week. Take your time with each one, allowing the Holy Spirit to guide your thoughts and heart.

Encounter in a Place of Longing: The Angel of the LORD appeared to Samson’s mother first, addressing her private sorrow of barrenness.

  • In your own life, what is a deep-seated longing or private pain that you need to surrender to God, trusting that He sees and knows you?
  • How can you cultivate a heart that is so open to God’s intervention that you believe His truth even when it comes in an unexpected way?

Relational Trust and God’s True Nature

Samson’s mother believed the divine message immediately, while her husband, Manoah, sought confirmation. Her trust was rooted in God’s character, not just the miraculous event. This prompt is about how to cultivate that same kind of trust.

  • Read and meditate on a few verses that reveal God’s true nature, such as Isaiah 43:1 (“Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine.”) or 2 Corinthians 12:9 (“My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”).
  • How do the truths in these verses—about His redemptive love and sufficient grace—build your trust in His promises, even when they seem unbelievable?
  • What is the difference between knowing these truths from a purely intellectual stance versus allowing them to deepen your relational trust with God?

Discerning God’s Heart Through His Actions: When Manoah feared death after seeing the Angel, his wife used God’s loving actions (accepting their offering and showing them things) as proof of His good intentions.

  • What are some of God’s consistent actions of love, provision, and grace in your life? List three things He has done for you that reveal His good and loving character.
  • How can you, in times of fear or uncertainty, focus on God’s consistent character rather than on your own fears or desire to understand everything about Him?

Activity: Practicing a Posture of Awe

Throughout this week, find a quiet moment each day to simply be in God’s presence without any agenda. You don’t need to ask for anything or try to understand a specific thing. Just sit and be still, allowing yourself to feel His nearness. As you do, silently think about the verses, “God, you are a God who works wonders.” (Psalm 77:14), and, “I trust in Your goodness.” (Psalm 52:8)

This simple act of being present and speaking truth will help you to shift from merely seeking intellectual certainty, like Minoah, to experiencing relational trust, just as Samson’s mother did.

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September 8, 2025 · 8:41 pm

Episode 4: Abigail, the Voice of Wisdom and Grace

The Voice of Wisdom and Grace: A Handmaiden’s Bold Stand

Welcome back to another episode of Living Life’s Way, where we continue our journey through The Handmaiden of the LORD series. This vital podcast is designed for every Christian woman who longs for a deeper, more meaningful spiritual walk with God, especially as we navigate these challenging times.

In Episode 4, we turn our hearts to a woman of remarkable courage and discernment: Abigail. Her story, found in 1 Samuel 25, is a powerful reminder that our words and actions, when guided by God, can be a voice of peace and wisdom in the face of chaos. This episode will help you discover how Abigail’s proactive grace and humble boldness provide a powerful blueprint for every modern handmaiden of the Lord facing difficult circumstances today.

Join Dr. Mary Buck and her assistant Abby as they unpack how Abigail, a woman living in a desperate and dangerous situation, modeled a response rooted in godly wisdom and trust, rather than retaliation.

We hope this podcast is more than just a listening experience; we hope it is an invitation to encounter Jesus in a profound and personal way. After listening, we encourage you to use the prayer journal prompts at the end of the transcript. These questions are a perfect way to reflect on your own voice of wisdom and deepen your walk with God.

THIS IS FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY.

FOR MEDICAL ADVICE OR DIAGNOSIS, CONSULT A PROFESSIONAL.

SCRIPT

Host: Dr. Mary Buck Digital Assistant: Abby

(Intro Music Fades In and Out)

Dr. Buck: Welcome back to The Winepress Podcast, “The Handmaiden of the LORD.” I’m Dr. Mary Buck, and it is such a joy to gather with you once again as we explore the lives of incredible women in the Bible who exemplify what it means to be a true handmaiden of the Lord. Today, we turn our attention to a woman of remarkable wisdom and courage, Abigail, found in the twenty-fifth chapter of 1 Samuel. And I’m joined again by my digital assistant, Abby. Welcome, Abby.

Abby: Thank you, Dr. Buck. I’m excited to delve into Abigail’s story, especially given the challenging circumstances she faced with her husband, Nabal. What is the immediate context surrounding her introduction in 1 Samuel 25?

Dr. Buck: That’s a great question, Abby, because context is always key. The chapter opens with the death of Samuel, a significant prophet. Then, we’re introduced to Nabal, a very wealthy man from Carmel, who is described as “harsh and ill-behaved.” David and his men, living in the wilderness, had actually been a protective presence for Nabal’s shepherds and flocks. When David sends his young men to respectfully request provisions during the sheep-shearing festival – a time of generosity – Nabal rudely and contemptuously rebuffs them, insulting David. This enraged David, and he immediately armed four hundred of his men, setting out with the clear intention to destroy Nabal and every male in his household.

Abby: That sounds like an extremely volatile situation. Nabal’s actions clearly put everyone in his household at grave risk. How does Abigail respond to this escalating crisis?

Dr. Buck: This is where Abigail truly shines, Abby. She’s described as “an intelligent and beautiful woman,” a stark contrast to her foolish and churlish husband, whose very name, Nabal, means “fool.” One of Nabal’s servants, understanding the grave danger they were in, goes straight to Abigail and tells her what Nabal did and what David is about to do. Without a moment’s hesitation, and crucially, without telling Nabal, Abigail acts. She quickly gathers a substantial amount of provisions – bread, wine, dressed sheep, roasted grain, raisins, figs – and sets out to intercept David. Her response is one of decisive action and profound wisdom, even as her husband remains oblivious in his drunkenness.

Abby: Her immediate, independent action is striking. What can we learn from her approach when she encounters David? Her humility seems to play a significant role.

Dr. Buck: Absolutely, Abby. When she meets David, Abigail dismounts, bows low before him, and immediately takes full responsibility for Nabal’s foolishness, pleading for her household. Her words are a masterpiece of humility, wisdom, and discernment. She doesn’t defend Nabal; in fact, she acknowledges his true nature, saying, “Please pay no attention, my lord, to that worthless man Nabal, for as his name is, so is he; Nabal is his name, and folly is with him.” She presents her gifts, but more powerfully, she appeals to David’s future as king. She urges him not to take vengeance and shed innocent blood, reminding him that the Lord would establish his house and fight his battles. She helps David see that acting on his anger would bring him regret and guilt later. She implicitly trusts in God’s divine plan for David, even as he’s consumed by wrath.

Abby: It’s remarkable how her words, spoken in such a perilous moment, completely altered David’s course of action. She truly disarmed him with wisdom and grace.

Dr. Buck: She did, Abby. And what’s so powerful here, for us today, is the profound impact of her spoken words. Abigail took an enormous chance to speak her truth to a man of great position and power, a man who was already enraged and bent on destruction. It was the authentic conviction, the discerning wisdom, and I believe, the divine anointing on her voice that broke through David’s fury. No matter how advanced our technology becomes, it cannot replicate that raw emotion, that authentic conviction, or the divine spirit that flows through a human voice, especially when it’s speaking God’s truth. Our voice is a gift, designed not just for eloquence, but for deep connection and spiritual transmission. Abigail’s powerful intervention stands as a timeless example of this.

Abby: That’s a truly profound observation, Dr. Buck, and it highlights the irreplaceable value of genuine human communication, especially when delivering spiritual truth. As you describe Nabal’s character—his self-centeredness, his harshness, his lack of gratitude, and his foolish behavior—I’m reminded of a passage in the New Testament. Doesn’t 2 Timothy chapter 3, verses 1 through 5, describe traits very similar to Nabal’s, warning us about how people will be in the last days?

Dr. Buck: Abby, that is an incredibly perceptive and vital connection! You are absolutely spot on. Paul warns Timothy in 2 Timothy 3:1-5 that “in the last days perilous times will come: For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, … unloving, unforgiving, … lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, …” Th list is quite lengthy.

When we look at Nabal’s character – his narcissism, his contempt for others, his ingratitude, his self-indulgence, his arrogance – it’s a perfect embodiment of those very traits described in 2 Timothy. He is the ancient prototype of the “Nabal-type” individual we are warned about for the end times.

Abby: So, if Nabal represents the kind of character we might encounter more frequently in these last days, then Abigail’s response becomes not just a historical event, but a direct model for how a handmaiden of the Lord should navigate such challenging situations today. Is that right?

Dr. Buck: Precisely, Abby! This is why Abigail’s story is so profoundly relevant for us now. She acts as a powerful model of response when facing situations involving these “Nabal-type” individuals – those who are narcissistic, ungrateful, arrogant, or even hostile. Abigail demonstrates that in such circumstances, godly wisdom, keen discretion, and abundant grace are absolutely critical. She didn’t retaliate, she didn’t whine, she didn’t wait for disaster. She moved with proactive wisdom, humbling herself, appealing to a higher purpose, and trusting that God would ultimately handle the justice.

Her courage to intercede, her willingness to bear responsibility for another’s foolishness, and her profound understanding that vengeance belongs to the Lord, are all essential characteristics for the handmaiden in these end times. She teaches us to respond not with the world’s anger or impulsivity, but with the power of God’s Holy Spirit…with discernment, seeking peace and preventing unnecessary harm, even to our adversaries, while leaving the ultimate vindication to God.

Abby: Dr. Buck, we’ve run out of time, would you like to close this session and we’ll pick up again next time?

Dr. Buck: Yes, thank you, Abby. –My sisters in Christ, let’s pray.

Heavenly Father, How great and good you are. Thank you for the story of Abigail and her stance against foolishness and wickedness in her life. Thank you that she provides a role model of wisdom, discretion, and especially how she used her words to guard her household, speak the truth even in the face of danger. Forgive us, your handmaiden’s, for the times when we fell short of your glory, when we should have spoken up, spoken the truth but we feared the consequences. We asked for the strength that you showed through Abigail that is available to us today. Teach us to use our words wisely, recognizing the power of our spoken words.

(Short pause)

Dr. Buck: What an incredible life that God has called us to through His son, Jesus, – a life so rich that the Bible tells us it is greater than jewels and diamonds, a life filled with love, joy, and true understanding of who we are in Him—His handmaidens.

My friend, if you are listening today, and you have not yet experienced this profound, abundant life that Jesus offers, I invite you now to open your heart to Him. He knows your name, He sees your struggles, and He longs to fill you with His love and peace. Simply open your heart, confess your need for Him, and invite Him in. You will not regret it.

Thank you for joining us on “The Winepress Podcast.”, and I look forward to our next time together.

Journal Prompts: The Voice of Wisdom and Grace

Based on the story of Abigail in 1 Samuel 25, reflect on the following questions. Take your time with each one, allowing the Holy Spirit to guide your thoughts and heart.

The Power of Proactive Wisdom

Abigail was a woman of “intelligence and beauty,” but her most profound action was her quick, decisive, and proactive response to avert disaster, even when her husband was oblivious.

  • Think about a current situation in your life where you might be tempted to react impulsively or wait for a crisis to unfold. How can you, like Abigail, respond with proactive wisdom and discretion?
  • What is the “disaster” you are called to prevent? Consider a relationship, a financial situation, or a spiritual battle that requires your immediate, prayerful, and decisive action. How is the Spirit of Truth leading you to respond with wisdom and grace?

The Unwavering Voice of Grace

Abigail disarmed an enraged David not with an argument but with humility, wisdom, and an appeal to God’s divine purpose. She took responsibility and spoke a truth that changed the course of events.

  • In what circumstances do you find it difficult to speak a word of grace, especially when you feel wronged or have a right to be angry?
  • How can you use your voice to speak truth, not just to a situation, but to someone’s God-given identity or purpose, just as Abigail did for David?

A Model for the End Times

The podcast drew a powerful parallel between the character of Nabal and the “Nabal-type” individuals we are warned about in the last days. Abigail’s response becomes a direct model for how a handmaiden of the Lord should respond.

  • How does Abigail’s example—her refusal to retaliate and her willingness to leave vengeance to the Lord—apply to the challenging or toxic relationships you face today?
  • Write a prayer or a short statement surrendering a relationship or a situation to God’s ultimate justice. Ask Him for the wisdom and grace to respond with His Holy Spirit, rather than with your own flesh and blood.

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September 1, 2025 · 3:33 pm

Episode 3: Mary, the Mother of Jesus

The Power of a Simple “Yes”: Mary’s Enduring Faith

Welcome back to another episode of Living Life’s Way, where we continue our journey through The Handmaiden of the LORD series. This vital podcast is designed for every Christian woman who longs for a deeper, more meaningful spiritual walk with God. In Episode 3, we turn our hearts to Mary, the mother of Jesus, a powerful example of what it means to be a true handmaiden.

This episode goes beyond the familiar story to explore her radical surrender, her deep spiritual wisdom, and her unwavering faith in all seasons of life. Her simple “yes” to God’s impossible plan is the quintessential response of a surrendered heart, teaching us that God often chooses the humble for His greatest purposes.

Join Dr. Mary Buck and her assistant Abby as they unpack Mary’s profound “fiat,” her song of praise (the Magnificat), and her enduring faithfulness at the foot of the cross. Her story is a timeless reminder that a “yes” to God is a lifelong journey of trust, reflection, and quiet strength.

We hope this podcast is more than just a listening experience; we hope it is an invitation to encounter Jesus in a new and personal way. After listening, we encourage you to use the Prayer Journal Prompts found at the end of the transcript. These questions are a perfect way to reflect on your own “yes” to God and deepen your walk with Him.

THIS IS FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY.

FOR MEDICAL ADVICE OR DIAGNOSIS, CONSULT A PROFESSIONAL.

SCRIPT

Dr. Buck: Hello, and welcome back to The Winepress podcast. I’m Dr. Mary Buck, your Christian life coach. We are continuing our vital new journey in our series, ‘The Handmaiden of the LORD,’ designed specifically for Christian women who long for a deeper, more meaningful spiritual walk with God, especially as we navigate these end times. Today, we turn our hearts to one of the most revered women in history. To help us explore her profound story, is Abby, my digital assistant with some very unique questions.

Abby:  Thank you, Dr. Buck. It’s an honor to discuss Mary, the mother of Jesus, a central figure in the Christian faith. Dr. Buck, her response to the angel Gabriel’s astonishing news in Luke 1:26-38 is truly iconic: ‘Let it be to me according to your word.’ What does this profound statement, her ‘fiat,’ reveal about Mary as a Handmaiden of the LORD?

Dr. Buck: That’s such a beautiful and foundational question, Abby. You see, Mary’s ‘Let it be to me according to your word’ is the quintessential handmaiden’s response. It reveals a heart of complete and utter surrender, humility, and radical obedience to God’s will. Here was a young, humble virgin, being told she would conceive the Son of God – an impossible, life-altering, and potentially socially devastating reality. Yet, her immediate response wasn’t doubt or fear, but a profound ‘yes.’ It shows a handmaiden whose trust in God’s character and power far outweighed any personal understanding or societal implications.

Abby:  Her immediate and humble surrender in the face of such a monumental and challenging calling is deeply inspiring. Dr. Buck, following this, Mary sings what we know as the Magnificat in Luke 1:46-55. What does this song of praise reveal about her spiritual depth and her understanding of God’s character, especially for Christian women seeking a closer walk with Him?”

Dr. Buck: The Magnificat, Abby, is a powerful window into Mary’s heart and mind. You see, it’s not just a simple song; it’s a hymn rich with Old Testament allusions, demonstrating her deep knowledge of scripture and God’s faithfulness throughout history. She praises God for His mercy, His justice, and His power to uplift the humble and scatter the proud. This reveals a handmaiden who is deeply contemplative, rooted in God’s word, and intimately aware of His covenant promises. It shows that her ‘yes’ to God wasn’t a blind leap, but an informed surrender rooted in a profound theological understanding and personal joy in her Savior.

Abby:  Her contemplative spirit and deep theological grounding are remarkable traits. Dr. Buck, throughout Jesus’ life, Luke 2:19 and 2:51 tell us that Mary ‘treasured all these things and pondered them in her heart.’ And later, she stood faithfully at the foot of the cross in John 19:25-27, and was present with the disciples in prayer after Jesus’ ascension in Acts 1:14. How do these enduring aspects of her life further define her as a Handmaiden of the LORD?”

Dr. Buck: These details paint a picture of enduring devotion and quiet strength, Abby. You see, Mary didn’t just say ‘yes’ once; her life was a continuous ‘yes’ to God’s unfolding plan. Her ‘pondering in her heart’ speaks to a reflective spirit, a handmaiden who processes God’s work deeply, even when it’s painful or confusing. Standing at the cross, witnessing her Son’s suffering, shows immense faithfulness and love, enduring profound sorrow. Her presence with the disciples in the upper room signifies her continued commitment to the early church and a life of prayer. Mary models a handmaiden who remains faithful through all seasons, holding onto God’s promises, and continuing to seek Him even after the miraculous has passed.

My dear sisters in Christ, let’s pray together now.

Heavenly Father, we thank You for the incredible example of Mary, the mother of Jesus. We pray for hearts as open and surrendered as hers, eager to say ‘yes’ to Your will, even when it seems impossible. We ask for Your forgiveness for those times when we, as Christian women, have hardened our hearts and closed our ears to Your love and Your truth. Ignite in us, Your handmaidens, that same deep thirst for Your acceptance and inclusion, and empower us to share Your transforming love with everyone, especially those we might be tempted to avoid. Heavenly Father, we thank You for the incredible example of Mary, the mother of Jesus. We pray for hearts as open and surrendered as hers, eager to say ‘yes’ to Your will, even when it seems impossible. We ask for Your forgiveness for those times when we, as Christian women, have hardened our hearts and closed our ears to Your love and Your truth. Ignite in us, Your handmaidens, that same deep thirst for Your acceptance and inclusion, and empower us to share Your transforming love with everyone, fill us with Your truly transformative riches: Your boundless love, Your healing peace, Your profound joy, and the eternal purpose found only in You. Empower us, Your handmaidens, eager to say yes to your will. Amen.

It is an incredible life that God has called us to through His son, Jesus, – a life so rich that the Bible tells us it is greater than jewels and diamonds, a life filled with love, joy, and true understanding of who we are in Him–His handmaidens.

My friend, If you are listening today and have never invited Jesus Christ into your heart, I want to invite you to do so right now. To simply open your heart, ask Him to come in, to forgive your sins, and to be your Lord and Savior. It is the most transformative decision you will ever make, and I promise you, you will not regret it. Just a simple prayer of invitation from your heart is all it takes.

Join us again next time on The Winepress podcast as we continue to explore the characteristics of The Handmaiden of the LORD. Until then, may God richly bless you.

Journal Prompts: The Power of a Simple “Yes”

Based on the story of Mary, the mother of Jesus, in the Luke and John passages, take time to reflect on the following questions this week. Allow the Holy Spirit to guide your heart as you consider Mary’s faith and how it speaks to your own journey as a handmaiden of the Lord.

Radical Surrender: Her “Fiat”

Mary’s response to the angel Gabriel—”Let it be to me according to your word”—was a profound “yes” to an impossible, life-altering call.

  • Think about a time when God asked you to do something that seemed confusing, impossible, or even socially challenging. What was your initial reaction?
  • What does it mean for you to say a complete “yes” to God’s will, even when you don’t understand the full picture? In what area of your life is He asking for that kind of radical surrender today?

Deeply Rooted: The Magnificat

Mary’s song of praise reveals a woman deeply rooted in scripture and confident in God’s character, not just her circumstances.

  • How does your knowledge of God’s faithfulness, as shown in the Bible and in your own life, strengthen your trust in Him?
  • Reflect on your own praise and worship. Is it rooted in a deep understanding of who God is, or is it primarily a reaction to your current feelings or situation? What can you do to cultivate a deeper, more informed sense of praise?

Enduring Faith: Pondering in Her Heart

Mary’s life was a continuous “yes.” She treasured moments in her heart, remained faithful at the cross, and continued in prayer after the miracles had passed.

  • What are the painful or confusing moments in your life that you need to surrender to God and trust He has a plan for?
  • Mary’s enduring faithfulness teaches us to hold onto God’s promises even when things get difficult. What promise from God are you holding onto today? Write a short prayer asking for His strength to continue in faith, no matter what.

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August 27, 2025 · 11:53 pm

Episode 2: Samaritan Woman

The Thirst for Deeper Grace: A Handmaiden’s Encounter

Welcome to another episode in our series, The Handmaiden of the LORD, designed for every woman who longs to walk closer with God in these challenging times.

In Episode 2, “The Samaritan Woman at the Well,” we explore one of the most powerful stories of grace and transformation in the Bible. This isn’t just a historical account; it’s a living, breathing testament to the truth that no one is beyond God’s reach. This episode powerfully reminds us that Jesus sees past our past, knows our deepest longings, and offers us a love that is revolutionary and complete.

Join us as Dr. Mary Buck and her digital assistant, Abby, unpack how the Samaritan woman, once an outcast seeking to avoid judgment, became a bold witness for Christ. Her story is a profound example of unhesitating surrender and obedience, showing us how a Handmaiden of the LORD becomes a conduit of God’s love.

This podcast is more than just a lesson; it’s an invitation to encounter Jesus in a new and personal way. After listening, we encourage you to use the journal prompts at the end of the transcript. These questions are designed to help you reflect on your own thirst for “living water” and how you can step into your purpose as a handmaiden of the LORD, defined not by your history, but by your encounter with Him.

THIS IS FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY.

FOR MEDICAL ADVICE OR DIAGNOSIS, CONSULT A PROFESSIONAL.

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EPISODE 2: Samaritan Woman at the Well

Dr. Buck: Hello, and welcome back to The Winepress podcast. I’m Dr. Mary Buck, your Christian life coach. We are continuing our new series, ‘The Handmaiden of the LORD,’ designed specifically for Christian women who long for a deeper, more meaningful spiritual walk with God, especially as we navigate these end times. Today, we delve into another powerful story of transformation. To help us explore it, is Abby, my digital assistant with some very thoughtful questions.

Abby: Thank you, Dr. Buck. Today’s focus is on the Samaritan woman at the well, as presented in John chapter 4:1-42. Dr. Buck, this encounter is truly revolutionary. What was the initial context of this woman’s life, and what made Jesus’ approach to her so significant, especially given the social norms of the time?

Dr. Buck: That’s a good starting point to begin our study, Abby. You see, this woman was a Samaritan, a people despised by the Jews, and she carried a past marked by five husbands, living with a man who wasn’t her own husband. She likely came to Jacob’s Well in the heat of midday to avoid the judgment of her community. So, when Jesus, a Jewish Rabbi, broke every social barrier by simply asking her for a drink, it was revolutionary. He saw beyond her past, her ethnicity, and her gender, initiating a conversation that would change her life.

Abby: That act of Jesus transcending social barriers is incredibly powerful. Dr. Buck, as their conversation deepened, Jesus offered her ‘living water’ and revealed His supernatural knowledge of her life, as seen in John 4:10 and 4:17-18. What was the impact of this revelation on the woman, and how does it speak to the true riches God offers?

Dr. Buck: The impact was profound, Abby. Jesus didn’t reveal her past to shame her, but to show He knew her completely and still offered radical grace and truth. You see, her deep thirst for acceptance and inclusion into the God-kind of love ignited her heart. This ‘living water’ was far beyond physical sustenance; it was the Holy Spirit, eternal life, and true spiritual fulfillment. This encounter began to heal her brokenness, revealing that God offers transformative riches that address the deepest longings of the heart, not just material needs.

Abby: That transformation from inner brokenness to profound spiritual fulfillment is a hallmark of God’s work. Dr. Buck, following this encounter, the woman left her water pot and immediately ran back to her town to share her testimony, as described in John 4:28-29. What does this immediate and bold response reveal about her as a handmaiden of the Lord?

Dr. Buck: Well Abby, her immediate response reveals a radical, unhesitating surrender and obedience. You see, she left behind the very symbol of her daily need and her old life, signifying that her thirst for living water and the urgency of sharing her discovery eclipsed all else. Her heart, once seeking to avoid judgment, was now overflowing with a love so powerful it had to be shared. As a handmaiden of the LORD, she didn’t just receive God’s love; she became an immediate conduit for it, extending that love and invitation to the very people who had ostracized her.

Abby: Her bold witness, leading many to Christ, is truly inspiring. Dr. Buck, it’s interesting that this Samaritan woman’s name is never disclosed in the passage. What is the significance of her anonymity, and how does it make her a universal figure for Christian women today?

Dr. Buck: I’m glad you pointed that out, Abby, and it truly makes her story resonate. You see, her anonymity in the passage is as if she becomes a universal figure, the ‘everywoman’ with a past history, a present situational condition, and a future prepared by God Himself. This nameless woman stands as a powerful testament that no matter our history or present circumstances, God sees us, knows us, and has a divine purpose for us as His handmaidens. Her story reminds us that a Handmaiden of the LORD isn’t defined by her past, her reputation, or her social standing; she is defined by her encounter with Jesus, her surrendered heart, and her willingness to be an instrument of His boundless love and reconciliation.

Abby: Dr. Buck, you have just a few moments left for this episode. Would you like to close and we’ll pick up again at your next meeting?”

Dr. Buck: Yes, thank you Abby, for letting us know.  –My dear sisters in Christ, let’s pray together now.

Heavenly Father, we thank You for the incredible example of the Woman at the Well. We pray for hearts as open and receptive as hers, eager to receive Your living water. We ask for Your forgiveness for those times when we, as Christian women, have hardened our hearts and closed our ears to Your love and Your truth. Ignite in us, Your handmaidens, that same deep thirst for Your acceptance and inclusion, and empower us to share Your transforming love with everyone, especially those we might be tempted to avoid. Help us to release the fleeting desires of the flesh, the deceptive lust of the eye, and the hollow pride of life. Instead, fill us with Your truly transformative riches: Your boundless love, Your healing peace, Your profound joy, and the eternal purpose found only in You. Empower us, Your handmaidens, to share this love and run boldly to proclaim Your goodness to all around us. Amen.

It is an incredible life that God has called us to through His son, Jesus, – a life so rich that the Bible tells us it is greater than jewels and diamonds, a life filled with love, joy, and true understanding of who we are in Him–His handmaidens.

My friend, If you are listening today and have never invited Jesus Christ into your heart, I want to invite you to do so right now. To simply open your heart, ask Him to come in, to forgive your sins, and to be your Lord and Savior. It is the most transformative decision you will ever make, and I promise you, it will be a blessing. Just a simple prayer of invitation from your heart is all it takes.

Join us again next time on The Winepress podcast as we continue to explore the characteristics of The Handmaiden of the LORD. Until then, may God richly bless you.

Journal Prompt: A Heart Thirsting for Living Water

Based on the story of the Samaritan woman in John 4:1-42, reflect on the following questions throughout the week. Take your time with each one, allowing the Holy Spirit to guide your thoughts and heart.

  1. The Encounter: The Samaritan woman went to the well at the hottest part of the day, likely to avoid others. Jesus initiated the conversation with a simple request for a drink, shattering social and cultural barriers.
    • Think about a time you felt unseen, judged, or isolated. How does knowing that Jesus saw past the Samaritan woman’s history and circumstances speak to your own feelings of being known and accepted by God?
    • In what areas of your life might you be “hiding” or trying to avoid judgment from others? How can you invite Jesus into those hidden places this week?
  2. The Living Water: Jesus didn’t shame her for her past but revealed His supernatural knowledge of her life to offer her “living water”—a spiritual fulfillment that spoke to her deepest thirst for acceptance and inclusion.
    • What are you thirsty for right now? Is it acceptance, validation, peace, or something else? List the things you often turn to for fulfillment that are not from God.
    • Meditate on Jesus’s promise of living water. What does it mean for you to exchange your current sources of thirst for the eternal, satisfying fulfillment that only He can provide? How does this change your perspective on your own past or present struggles?
  3. The Response: The woman’s immediate response was to leave her water pot—the very symbol of her daily need—and run back to her community to share her testimony.
    • What is the “water pot” in your life? What daily task, routine, or preoccupation might you need to symbolically leave behind to follow God’s call with unhesitating surrender and obedience?
    • Who has God placed in your life that you might be tempted to avoid, either out of fear or past hurt? How can you become an instrument of God’s love to them, just as the Samaritan woman did?
  4. The Everywoman: The Samaritan woman’s anonymity makes her an “everywoman,” a powerful reminder that our story, regardless of its past, is a testament to God’s grace.
    • Write a short prayer or a statement to God, surrendering your own history and circumstances to Him. Declare that you will not be defined by your past, but by your encounter with Jesus and your willingness to be His handmaiden.
    • In what ways can you, as a handmaiden of the Lord, share your own story of God’s love and grace with someone this week?

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August 18, 2025 · 7:54 pm

The Handmaiden of the LORD – Episode 1: Mary Magdalene

Hello, my sisters in Christ! I’m so excited to embark with you on a truly vital journey: our new 7-part series, ‘The Handmaiden of the LORD.’

This series is designed specifically for Christian women like you, who are longing for a deeper, more meaningful spiritual walk with God, especially as we navigate these challenging end times. We know that our Christian life will be tested as never before, and this series aims to equip and inspire you to stand firm.

In each episode, we’ll delve into the powerful stories of women in the Bible whose lives exemplify the characteristics of a true ‘handmaiden of the LORD.’ You’ll discover what it takes to embody these qualities in today’s world, encouraging you to commit to a worldview that truly aligns with God’s heart.

To help us explore these profound truths, I’ll be joined by my insightful digital assistant, Abby, in an engaging interview style. Her thoughtful questions will help us uncover even deeper understanding.

After each podcast, you’ll find the full interview transcript available here on my blog, along with a special journal prompt. These prompts are designed to encourage you to take time to meditate on the story of each handmaiden, allowing God’s truth to sink deep into your heart and transform your walk.

Join us as we uncover the timeless wisdom of these biblical women and embrace our calling as handmaidens of the LORD.

THIS IS FOR INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY.

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From The Winepress Podcast

The Handmaiden of the LORD – Episode 1: Mary Magdalene

Dr. Buck: Hello, and welcome back to The Winepress podcast. I’m Dr. Mary Buck, your Christian life coach. We are embarking on a new journey in our series, ‘The Handmaiden of the LORD,’ designed specifically for Christian women who long for a deeper, more meaningful spiritual walk with God, especially as we navigate these end times. Today, we begin by exploring a powerful story of transformation. To help us delve into it, I’m joined by Abby, my digital assistant, who has some very interesting questions.”

Abby: Thank you, Dr. Buck. Our focus today is on Mary Magdalene, as presented in John chapter 20:1-18. Dr. Buck, Mary Magdalene’s encounter with the risen Christ is profoundly captured in John 20:16. As a Christian life coach, what significance do you find in her singular, powerful cry, ‘Rabboni!’?

Dr. Buck: That’s such a crucial starting point, Abby. You see, Mary Magdalene’s cry of ‘Rabboni!’ which means Teacher, was far more than just a title. It was an exclamation of deep recognition, profound respect, and overwhelming emotion. This single word reveals her understanding of who Jesus was to her: the one who had healed her, transformed her life, and continually guided her. He was not just a miracle worker, for Msry Magdalene, but the ultimate Instructor, the source of divine wisdom and truth, who led her out of darkness into light. This immediate recognition, in such a pivotal moment, signifies that she truly knew Him as the one who imparted truth.

Abby: That depth of recognition, of knowing Jesus as the ultimate Teacher, is truly insightful. Dr. Buck, what impact did this understanding of Jesus as her ‘Rabboni’ have on Mary Magdalene in response to the radical command He gave next, which was ‘Go instead,’ as we see in John 20:17?

Dr. Buck: Her deep, personal knowledge of Jesus as her ‘Teacher’ is precisely what enabled her to respond in what some pastors call ‘radical faith.’ You see, her natural desire was to cling to His physical presence, especially after His resurrection. But because she knew Him as the one who led her into all truth, she could trust His redirection, even when it meant letting go of that natural desire. Her understanding of Him as ‘Teacher’ gave her the courage and inner strength to step into an unfamiliar role and proclaim the message that would change the world, as she did in John 20:18.

Abby: Based on what you described, it sounds like radical faith is a powerful handmaiden characteristic. Which brings us to the next question: For Christian women today seeking a closer walk with God, what lessons can be drawn from Mary Magdalene’s example of recognizing Jesus as her ‘Rabboni’?

Dr. Buck: The lessons we learn, Abby, is that Mary Magdalene’s response reminds us that a genuine, deep relationship with Jesus as our Teacher empowers us to follow His commands, even when they challenge our comfort zones, because we trust that He is leading us into His perfect will and deeper truth. It’s about letting go of our own understanding and embracing His divine instruction for our lives, especially in these end times. This is the heart of a handmaiden – to recognize and act on radical faith in Jesus and His direction.

Dr. Buck: My dear sisters in Christ, let’s take a moment to pray together now.

Heavenly Father, we thank You for the incredible example of Mary Magdalene. We pray for hearts as, eager to recognize Jesus as our ‘Rabboni,’ our ultimate Teacher of all things related to the God-kind of life and living. We ask for Your forgiveness for those times when we, as Christian women have turned away from your teachings, help us now, Your handmaidens, to desire that same deep thirst for your ways which are much higher than our own and empower us to show your ways of kindness and mercy. fill us with Your truly transformative riches: Your boundless love, Your healing peace, Your profound joy, and the eternal purpose found only in You. Empower us, Your handmaidens, to share this love and run boldly instead to proclaim Your goodness to all around us. Amen.

It is an incredible life that God has called us to through His son, Jesus, – a life so rich that the Bible tells us it is greater than jewels and diamonds, a life filled with love, joy, and true understanding of who we are in Him–His handmaidens.

My friend, If you are listening today and have never invited Jesus Christ into your heart, I want to invite you to do so right now. To simply open your heart, ask Him to come in, to forgive your sins, and to be your Lord and Savior. It is the most transformative decision you will ever make, and I promise you, you will not regret it. Just a simple prayer of invitation from your heart is all it takes.

Join us again next time on The Winepress podcast as we continue to explore the characteristics of The Handmaiden of the LORD. Until then, may God richly bless you.

Journal Prompt

My dear sister,

Thank you for joining us on this vital journey to discover the heart of a handmaiden. This episode with Mary Magdalene invites us to move from simply knowing about Jesus to truly knowing Him as our “Rabboni”—our ultimate Teacher. Her story is a powerful reminder that our faith is rooted in this deep, personal knowledge of Him.

As you take time to meditate on Mary Magdalene’s example, use one or more of the following questions to guide your journaling and prayer time:

  1. Reflecting on “Rabboni”: Mary Magdalene’s cry of “Rabboni!” was a profound declaration of who Jesus was to her. Take a moment to reflect on your own relationship with Jesus. While you may know Him as your Savior and friend, do you truly know Him as your Teacher? What does it look like in your daily life to see Him as the ultimate Instructor, the source of divine wisdom and truth?
  2. Letting Go and Going Instead: We learned that Mary’s deep trust in Jesus as her Teacher gave her the courage to obey His command to “Go instead,” letting go of her natural desire to cling to His physical presence. When has God asked you to let go of your own understanding, desires, or comfort zones and “go instead” to a place of His choosing? Journal about that moment—what was your initial response, and how did trusting in His instruction ultimately lead you to a deeper place with Him?
  3. Living in Radical Faith Today: Consider one specific area in your life right now where you are clinging to your own understanding or way of doing things. Ask Jesus to reveal Himself to you as your “Rabboni” in this situation. Write down what it would look like to fully surrender to His instruction, and what act of radical faith and obedience He is calling you to take this week.

May this time of meditation and journaling empower you to follow Mary Magdalene’s example and live with the courage and obedience of a true handmaiden of the LORD.

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August 12, 2025 · 3:23 pm

Oh! LORD, I Didn’t See That Coming

How often have we found ourselves walking a path, diligently seeking the Lord, and then – bam – something happens that we never saw coming? Perhaps it’s a blessing so overwhelming it takes our breath away, a gentle whisper of guidance that redirects our steps in a beautiful new way, or an unfolding of events so perfectly orchestrated that we can only stand in awe of our Heavenly Father’s handiwork.

Today, I want us to reflect on the incredible truth found in 1 Corinthians 2:9: “However, as it is written: ‘What no eye has seen, what no ear has heard, and what no human mind has conceived’— the things God has prepared for those who love him—” (NIV).

Think about that for a moment. The Creator of the universe, the One who knows every hair on our heads (Matthew 10:30), has prepared things for us that are beyond our wildest imaginations! Our human minds, limited by our earthly experiences, cannot even begin to grasp the fullness of His love and the abundance of His blessings.

This reminds me of the complex and compelling story of Jephthah in the book of Judges (chapters 11-12). Here was a man who had been an outcast, driven from his home and even surrounded by those considered “worthless” (Judges 11:1-3). Yet, Jephthah didn’t allow this rejection to define him entirely. When the elders of Gilead, who had previously cast him out, found themselves in dire straits against the Ammonites, they turned to him, pleading for his leadership (Judges 11:5-6).

What’s remarkable is Jephthah’s response. He didn’t immediately forgive and forget. He challenged their past actions: “Did you not hate me and drive me from my father’s house? Why do you come to me now when you are in trouble?” (Judges 11:7). This wasn’t just holding onto a grudge; it was an assertion of his inherent worth and a demand for a genuine commitment. He didn’t give up on his value or his potential, even when others had. He negotiated, ensuring that if he led them to victory, he would indeed become their leader (Judges 11:9-11). This speaks volumes about perseverance and refusing to be limited by past injustices.

Furthermore, despite his illegitimate birth in the eyes of his half-brothers, Jephthah clearly believed in his right to his father’s legacy. His actions suggest a deep-seated understanding that he was indeed an inheritor, deserving of respect and a place within his community. He carried a sense of rightful belonging, which fueled his response to the elders.

Like Jephthah, we may have experienced times when we felt unjustly treated, as though things that were rightfully ours – opportunities, respect, even relationships – were taken away. These experiences can leave deep wounds. However, Jephthah’s story reminds us that our past does not have to dictate our future. We can, like him, stand firm in our inherent worth in God’s eyes and not give up on our potential.

In this world, as Christians, we are told to expect tribulation (John 16:33). We will face various forms of persecution—whether emotional, social, political, personal, or even physical. The pressures of our current culture push at us from all sides, challenging our convictions and our peace. In these moments, it is absolutely crucial that we do not forget our new identity in Christ, but instead, rely on it.

Our identity isn’t based on what the world says about us, what others have taken from us, or even our past mistakes. Our identity is rooted in Christ: we are children of God, redeemed, beloved, and called to purpose (Galatians 3:26, Ephesians 1:4-5). This divine identity empowers us with the perseverance needed to refuse to be limited by past injustices or present pressures.

Ultimately, for those who diligently seek God and rely on the goodness of His blessings, the “Oh! Lord, I didn’t see that coming!” moments are often filled with a joy and abundance that far exceeds anything we could have orchestrated ourselves (1 Corinthians 2:9). Let us strive to live with that hopeful expectation, putting aside negativity and embracing the unexpected blessings God has in store.

Journaling Prompts:

 * Reflect on a time when you faced injustice or felt something was unfairly taken from you. How did you respond? What can you learn from Jephthah’s initial response to the elders?

 * In what ways can you better recognize and affirm your inherent worth and belonging as a child of God, even if you have experienced rejection or loss?

 * Consider any grudges or negative feelings you may be holding onto. How might releasing these burdens open you up to God’s blessings and lead to a greater sense of peace?

 * Think about a time when you persevered through a challenging situation despite past setbacks. How did that experience strengthen your faith and remind you of your identity in Christ?

 * Pray and ask God to help you embrace resilience and a spirit of forgiveness, trusting that He has good plans for your future, even the ones you don’t see coming, and that your identity in Him will sustain you through all challenges.

May you walk in the strength and hope that comes from knowing you are deeply loved and that God’s unexpected blessings await you!

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August 4, 2025 · 1:33 pm

Oh! LORD, I’ve Fallen Off the Bandwagon

In our fast-paced world, it’s incredibly easy to find ourselves pulled along by the currents of popular opinion, a compelling new trend, or even a subtle shift in cultural values. Sometimes, before we even realize it, we’re simply following the crowd without truly discerning the path or its destination. Perhaps it was a new diet craze, a popular social cause, or a way of thinking you unknowingly adopted. You might have, as I have at times, found yourself feeling like you’ve fallen off a “bandwagon” – or perhaps were on one you never truly intended to join!

And, in the ancient book of Judges, we see a recurring pattern with the Israelites. They would pledge their allegiance to God, experience His incredible blessings, and then, drawn by the seemingly alluring practices of the surrounding pagan cultures – the “bandwagons” of their time, worshipping gods like Baal and Asherah – they would stray. The consequences were always hardship and separation from God.

As women seeking a deeper, more intimate walk with the Lord, we too can find ourselves tempted by modern-day “bandwagons.” These might not always be as overt as idol worship, but they can subtly pull us away from our core values and our precious relationship with God. It could be the relentless pursuit of worldly success, the pressure to conform to certain beauty standards, the adoption of gossip-ridden news stories as our primary focus, or even well-intentioned but ultimately unbiblical beliefs that gain widespread popularity. The allure can be strong, especially when life feels monotonous or we just want to fit in. A lack of conviction, the fear of missing out (FOMO), and superficial motivations can easily lead us in the exact opposite direction of where we truly desire to go.

So, how do we stay grounded and avoid these spiritual pitfalls and disturbances, particularly in these end times of great unrest and turmoil? The Apostle Paul, in 1 Corinthians 12, speaks of the diverse spiritual gifts given by the Holy Spirit for the building up of the body of Christ. Among these invaluable gifts are knowledge, insight (often referred to as wisdom or understanding), and discernment.

These gifts are not just theoretical concepts; they are practical, empowering tools designed by God to equip us for life’s journey. They act as our anchors in the storms of life!

  • The Gift of Knowledge: This is more than just intellectual understanding. Spiritual knowledge is a deep, personal knowing of God’s Word, His unchanging character, and His perfect ways. When we are rooted in this knowledge, we have a firm foundation to evaluate the “bandwagons” that come our way. We can confidently ask: Does this align with what I know to be true about God? Does it reflect His love, justice, and mercy?
  • The Gift of Insight (Wisdom/Understanding): Insight takes knowledge a step further. It’s the Holy Spirit giving us the ability to see beyond the surface, to understand the underlying principles and the potential long-term consequences of an action or belief. When faced with a compelling new idea or social trend, insight allows us to ask: What are the potential effects of this on my walk with God? What are the hidden assumptions? Where might this truly lead me and those I love?
  • The Gift of Discernment: This is the crucial ability to distinguish between what is of God and what is not, between truth and falsehood, between what is beneficial and what is harmful. Discernment acts like a spiritual filter, helping us to recognize the subtle “red flags” even when they are disguised in appealing packaging. It protects us from distractions and disruptions that seek to pull us away from God’s will and best for us.

These spiritual gifts are not meant to be dormant within us. As we purposely remain “on spiritual guard” and in a state of prayerful regard, cultivating our relationship with the Holy Spirit through consistent prayer, dedicated Bible study, and seeking Godly counsel, these gifts can be awakened and sharpened. They provide invaluable insights not only for avoiding spiritual derailment but also for making wise, God-honoring decisions in our families, our careers, and our communities. They empower us to live with intention and purpose, guided by God’s wisdom rather than the fleeting trends of the world.

When we are rooted in divine knowledge, guided by spiritual insight, and protected by discernment, we can experience even greater peace and joy. This is how we can navigate life’s challenges with a confidence that transcends circumstances, while simultaneously deepening our intimacy with God and allowing His peace and joy to flourish within us, regardless of what’s happening around us.

Let us, therefore, be intentional about seeking and strengthening these incredible gifts. Let us pray for knowledge to understand God’s truth, for insight to see with spiritual clarity, and for discernment to navigate the complexities of life. By doing so, we can stay firmly planted on the path of life, resisting the urge to blindly follow the crowd and instead walking closely with our Lord!

Journaling Prompts:

  1. Think about a time you felt like you were “on a bandwagon” – perhaps in a social trend, a particular belief, or even a way of thinking. What were the underlying motivations behind your involvement? What were the outcomes, good or bad?
  2. Consider the spiritual gifts of knowledge, insight, and discernment. In which of these areas do you feel God is specifically calling you to grow right now? What one practical step can you take this week to cultivate that gift (e.g., spending more focused time in Scripture, praying specifically for wisdom in a decision, seeking counsel from a trusted, spiritually mature friend)?
  3. Identify a current “social bandwagon” or prevalent cultural idea that you feel might subtly challenge your walk with God. How can you intentionally use the gifts of knowledge, insight, and discernment to evaluate it through a biblical lens?
  4. How does the idea of these gifts being “practical, empowering tools” and “anchors” resonate with you in your daily life? How can you apply this truth to a specific situation you’re facing this week?
  5. Spend some time in prayer, asking the Holy Spirit to strengthen these gifts within you. Ask Him to show you any areas where you might be unknowingly swayed by “bandwagons” and to grant you the wisdom and courage to walk in His truth, experiencing His peace and joy in every circumstance.

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July 28, 2025 · 9:57 pm

Oh, LORD! My Goose is Cooked

There are moments in life that hit us like a ton of bricks – those sudden, undeniable realizations that we’ve landed ourselves in a tricky spot. It’s that feeling of looking at a situation and wanting to throw your hands up, exclaiming, “Oh, LORD! My goose is cooked!” I know I’ve been there. That heavy, disheartening feeling of hitting rock bottom, realizing your choices have led you straight into a mess, and thinking, “There’s no way out of this one!” As Christian women striving to walk with God, it can sometimes feel even more isolating.

We’ve all been there, haven’t we? Those moments when despite our best intentions, or perhaps a moment of impatience or leaning on our own understanding, our actions result in a less-than-desired, even dire, outcome. It’s when you’re staring at the consequences of a decision, big or small, and the full weight of it settles in. Maybe it’s a strained relationship from words spoken too quickly, a financial bind from a hasty purchase, or a missed opportunity because we hesitated for too long. That gut-wrenching feeling of, “How did I get here, and what on earth do I do now?”

But here’s the beautiful truth we need to hold onto: our God is a God of redemption, even when our goose feels utterly cooked. He meets us in our messes, not to condemn us, but to guide us through. This blog is all about those moments – what happens when we face the music, how we navigate the aftermath, and most importantly, how we can lean on God to avoid those “cooked goose” scenarios in the future.

This journey, our walk with Christ, isn’t about perfection, but about progress. It’s about learning to step out in faith, to follow God’s leading with humble hope, and to act in love, even when the path isn’t perfectly clear or our past choices loom large. It’s about trusting that even when we stumble, God’s grace is sufficient, and His plans for us are always good.

Finding Our Way Out (And Avoiding Future “Cooked Geese”)

So, how do we shift from panic to peace, from despair to divine direction? It starts with recognizing that God’s Word is not just a book of rules, but a lamp for our feet and a light for our path (Psalm 119:105). It is designed to lead us, not into temptation or regret, but into all good works that God has prepared for us (Ephesians 2:10).

Even some well-known women in the Bible, despite their incredible faith, experienced moments where their very human reactions showed a temporary lack of circumspection. Think of Sarah, for instance. 

When the Lord visited Abraham and promised that Sarah, well advanced in years, would bear a son, Sarah was eavesdropping from inside the tent. Her first, very human response, was to laugh to herself (Genesis 18:12). It wasn’t a malicious laugh, but a laugh of disbelief at something that seemed utterly impossible given her age and circumstances. 

Later, when the Lord gently confronted her about it, asking, “Is anything too hard for the Lord?”, Sarah even tried to deny her laughter out of fear. Yet, God didn’t condemn her or retract His promise. Instead, He beautifully affirmed His power and faithfulness.

Sarah’s story reminds us that sometimes, our “cooked goose” moments aren’t due to outright disobedience, but from a struggle to fully grasp the bigness of God and His ability to do the impossible. It’s a powerful lesson in bringing our doubts and human limitations before Him, and learning to trust that His plans will prevail, even when they defy all logic and human understanding.

Here’s the good news. One of the most powerful safeguards against those snap judgments or hasty decisions that land us in hot water is simply this: taking intentional, consecrated time in prayer before the LORD. Before we act, before we speak, before we commit – we pause. We bring our thoughts, our desires, our fears, and our situations before Him, laying them bare. “Lord,” we pray, “show me your way. Guide me by your truth. Give me wisdom from above.” 

This isn’t just a quick plea; it’s a patient, listening posture. It’s about cultivating a heart that truly seeks His counsel above all else, trusting that His leading will always be for our ultimate good and His glory. This deliberate communion with God allows Him to illuminate the path, reveal potential pitfalls, and infuse us with the courage and discernment needed to make choices that honor Him, no matter how “cooked” our situation may seem.

Let’s Reflect & Journal:

Take a moment in quiet reflection and consider:

  • When was your last “cooked goose” circumstance – that situation where you felt stuck due to a difficult outcome?
  • What did you do in that moment, and what was the immediate result?
  • Looking back, what does the Word of God direct regarding that situation or the decisions you made?
  • Knowing what you know now, and guided by God’s Word, what would you have done differently?
  • In your situation, stop to hear God saying, “Is there anything too hard for the LORD?” How do you respond?

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July 21, 2025 · 10:11 pm

Oh, LORD! There’s a Ghost in My Closet

As a young girl, I was afraid of the dark, and my closet at night often felt like the scariest place of all. My imagination would conjure up all sorts of spooky thoughts! As I grew older, I realized those were just shadows playing tricks. But have you ever felt like there’s a different kind of “ghost” lurking in your past? Not a spooky apparition, but a memory, a hurtful word, or a limiting belief that just won’t seem to leave you alone. It whispers doubts, stirs up old shame, and tries to convince you that you’re still the person you used to be, even though you know in your heart that God has made you new.

For many of us, these “ghosts” are real. They might stem from childhood experiences, a critical comment from someone we loved, or even a personal failure that we just can’t seem to shake. They can feel like heavy chains, holding us back from fully embracing the freedom and identity we have in Christ.

I recently had a dream that brought one of my own “ghosts” to the surface. In the dream, I found myself forgetting someone very important to me, someone who represented my past and the foundational values I grew up with. Despite my efforts, I struggled to bring her “home” – to a place of safety, belonging, and identity. The feeling of forgetfulness and being unable to help was incredibly distressing.

This dream resonated with a memory from my youth. I remembered seeking help with a task, only to be met with a dismissive comment that implied I wasn’t capable. For years, that hurtful label lingered, a quiet “ghost” in my mental closet, trying to define me. Even as I grew, achieved, and stepped into my calling, that old whisper tried to tell me I wasn’t smart enough, not truly capable.

But here’s the beautiful truth, dear sister in Christ: When we are in Christ, we are a new creation! The Bible tells us in 2 Corinthians 5:17 (NIV): “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!”

This isn’t just a nice idea; it’s a profound spiritual reality. The “old” you, burdened by past hurts, labels, and limitations, has passed away. The “new” you, redeemed and transformed by God’s grace, is here! You are not defined by those old “ghosts” or the whispers of the past.

So, what do we do with these lingering memories that try to hinder our walk with God? We don’t ignore them or pretend they don’t exist. Instead, we bring them into the light of God’s truth.

Think of it like this: You wouldn’t leave a “ghost” (a painful memory) to haunt your closet forever, would you? No! You’d want to deal with it, expose it, and let it go. And that’s exactly what we can do with God’s help.

Isaiah 43:18-19 (NIV) encourages us: “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.”

This doesn’t mean we literally erase our memories, but rather that we release their crushing power over us. We choose to deal with them according to the Word of God, allowing God to do a “new thing” in our lives.

How do we turn these hurtful memories over to God?

  1. Acknowledge the Pain: It’s okay to admit that a memory hurts or has held you back. God is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18).
  2. Surrender it in Prayer: Just as I prayed after my dream, take that memory, that label, that shame, and lay it at the feet of Jesus. He invites us in Matthew 11:28 (NIV): “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” He wants to carry your burdens.
  3. Embrace Your New Identity: Remind yourself daily of who God says you are. You are loved, chosen, redeemed, and powerful in Christ! You are not a “dumb bunny”; you are a brilliant, capable daughter of the King!
  4. Renew Your Mind: As Romans 12:2 (NIV) says, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” Replace those old, negative thoughts with God’s truth. Fill your mind with His promises.

When we turn these “ghosts” over to God, something incredible happens. Through the power of Chrst’ work on the cross, they lose their power. The shame dissipates. The chains break. We are free to fully step into the powerful, new creature He has made us to be. We can then use our experiences, even the painful ones, to minister to others and shine His light even brighter.

So, dear sister, what “ghost” might be lurking in your closet today? Take a moment, invite the Holy Spirit to reveal it, and then, with open hands and a trusting heart, turn it over to the Lord. Watch as He replaces that old, hindering memory with His loving care, transforming you more and more into the magnificent woman He created you to be.

You are a new creation, walking forward in His grace!

Journal Prompt:

Take some time to reflect and write in your journal:

  1. What “ghost” (a past memory, a hurtful word, or a limiting belief) might be lingering in your own “closet” and trying to hold you back?
  2. How has this memory impacted your life or your walk with God?
  3. What specific steps can you take today to surrender this hurt-filled memory to the Lord and embrace the new identity He has given you in Christ? Write out a prayer of release and new stance in Christ.

Dr. Buck / Christian Life Coach /

As God gets bigger in our lives–we get stronger!

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July 14, 2025 · 2:37 pm

Oh, LORD! I Lost my GPS

My dear friends in Christ, have you ever felt like life is a road full of unexpected turns? One moment you’re cruising along, feeling a wonderful sense of freedom and direction, and the next, you encounter a detour, a sudden roadblock, a pothole, or even the unsettling experience of something we deeply rely on being completely dismantled. These moments are challenging, aren’t they? And in these times, when we feel disoriented and unsure of the way, we learn to cry out: “Oh, LORD! I’ve lost my GPS!”

The True Meaning of Mobility

Without a doubt, we all cherish our mobility in life, and rightly so! It’s more than just getting from one place to another. For many of us, mobility importantly represents:

  • The freedom to move forward in purpose: To walk confidently towards the calling God has placed on our hearts, embracing new opportunities, and seeing His hand guide our progress.
  • The freedom of cherished independence: To joyfully steward the gifts and choices He’s given us, navigating our paths with a sense of security and control that only comes from knowing He is with us.
  • The freedom of renewed perspective: The blessing of stepping away from the daily noise, getting a fresh look at our circumstances, and finding the quiet wisdom that helps us move forward.

These forms of mobility are precious gifts. We work diligently to nurture them, and when they feel threatened, it’s natural to feel a pang of distress. We might find ourselves pleading, striving, or even wrestling to regain control over what feels lost. Yet, sometimes, in God’s perfect plan, we come to a moment where we simply must acknowledge: “This situation, Lord, is truly beyond my power.”

Finding Strength in Surrender

It’s precisely in these times of surrender, when our human efforts fall short, that the most beautiful truth emerges: our inner strength, rooted in Christ, is tested and refined. We have a divine choice before us. Will we yield to the heavy burdens of anxiety, frustration, or despair? Or, will we choose the path illuminated by His Word?

For those of us walking by faith, this path leads us to a deeper, more profound reliance on our Heavenly Father. The Bible beautifully reminds us to “wait upon the Lord” (Isaiah 40:31). This isn’t passive idleness, but an active, hopeful, and trusting surrender. It’s a conscious decision to clothe ourselves in joy and peace, even when the storms of life rage around us. We trust that God’s ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts deeper than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9), knowing He is orchestrating all things for our good.

When something significant is removed from our lives – perhaps a familiar means of progress, a sense of security, or a long-held expectation – it often clears the way for something far greater. The dismantling, though it may feel painful in the moment, can be God’s loving hand gently, yet firmly, guiding us to a necessary recalibration. He encourages us to redefine what “mobility” means in His kingdom, and to discover innovative, God-given ways to move forward, perhaps on paths we never dreamed possible.

Navigating Life’s Way with Faith

The journey of life will always present its twists and turns. We will inevitably encounter moments where our cherished freedoms feel challenged. But by rooting ourselves deeply in His promises, embracing the resilience He pours into us, and finding peace in surrendering what we cannot control, we can navigate life’s way with an unwavering spirit, knowing that the Lord Himself will rescue and deliver us from every adversary (Psalm 34:19). Indeed, “If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed” (John 8:36).

Now, dear friend, it’s your turn:

In your own journey, how has your understanding of true “mobility” or “freedom” transformed when faced with life’s unexpected challenges? What new paths has God revealed to you when old ways of moving forward were no longer an option? What Bible verse came alive in that moment of unrest?

Dr. Buck / Christian Life Coach /

As God gets bigger in our lives–we get stronger!

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